My boyfriend is kind and loving 90% of the time . Cooks, cleans , irons , listens to me , great dad to his kids , liked by my family .
I can be difficult - I have issues with mental health but I work full time and believe I am loving too but realise I can be hard work .
My boyfriend has a short temper and has called me names when arguing - slut/ bitch /cu*t
He apologised and as a result we decided to go to couples councilling which we had yesterday.
Last night after we got home we had a few drinks and an argument. I was cross as he admitted he has actually had cheated on his ex ! I Kept saying - now I understand why you are so kind to her ! You have disappointed me etc ! I did go abit crazy !
He stated shouting and threw things around the bedroom - furniture and then got me in a corner . I got into a ball and he was shaking me and calling me names . He didn’t beat me but I thought he might . He just kept shaking me and I think pulled me around . I kept screaming - help .
I Managed to lock myself in the bathroom . He was kicking the door down and screaming . I had my phone so said I am
Ringing 999 but I hung up.
I said he had to leave the house but he wouldn’t and he was trying to get into the bathroom and screaming .
There was a knock at the door and it was the police .
They then questioned me and I explained the situation and they arrested my partner and he is now gone .
We are engaged , have just signed a new tenancy for 1 year on a property which I would really struggle to pay alone ?
We are meant to be getting married in Feb .
I am so confused and mortified that my neighbour called the police . Also , I can’t belive my partner has been arrested? He will have to come back here as he lives here . He have no kids . I don’t know that we would hit me but I know I am scared or could happen potentially.
I don’t know what to think ? Will this wake us up ? Should I leave ? What about this tenancy? I don’t know want to wreck my credit score ? I love my partner but it has gotten out of control - I know I play a part in it too and we drink and argue . What do you think ? I’m concerned he will have thought I called the police- but I didn’t and wouldn’t have.
I am 30 and childless And before meeting my partner I was miserable . Now I am happy 90 percent
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pinkmonkey123 · 27/10/2020 08:15
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