Total shit of a day
Phonecall this morning from a parent at school giving me confidential heads up that DS (year 11) and another classmate had posted pictures/videos of themselves on a class WhatsApp group; crushing tablets and snorting/swallowing the dust.
She said it wasn't obvious if they were actually ingesting the drug or pretending but they were
Clearly trying to give that impression.
Knowing what I do the drug is likely to be Ritalin or similar for ADHD (prescribed for the other boy)
the photos were probably taken a few weeks ago when this boy stayed over and I recall thinking at the time DS was acting really strangely. Really hyper and manic.
They don't actually see each other out of school
much but coincidentally DS was due to go for a sleepover tonight and seemed overly excited at the prospect; probably looking forward to round 2
After ringing 'Frank' i messaged DS to tell him sleepover was off. When I picked him I was very calm, relayed the information I'd been given and asked what was going on. No ranting or threats.
Unfortunately it made no difference as DS, denied absolutely everything, said I could check his phone and became really upset and indignant. Has been in his room ever since and won't talk to me.
To make matters worse the school he is at has a zero tolerance policy with drugs and the mother of another boy in the WhatsApp group is a teacher there!! If one parent already knows what's been posted it won't take long to get back to the school and DS could likely face expulsion!
Just don't know what to do; I could almost have dealt with it better if he'd held his hand up and admitted it; but he didn't. He is denying all, likely lying through his teeth and now hates me for taking him away from his 'only friend'
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DS and drugs
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pootlepie123 · 09/10/2020 17:58
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