My DS has always had difficulty dropping off to sleep (other than as an infant, when he slept well!) and often takes up to an hour to fall asleep.
He's always had an extremely strong bedtime routine, and is pretty good at getting ready and going to bed, but since he went back to school he is falling asleep later and later.
He claims (I can't verify, but probably correct as there are clock chimes where we live) that it is now 1 o'clock when he falls asleep.
He gets up at 6:45 for school, so this is obviously far from ideal, and he's like a corpse in the morning poor thing.
He used to have anxiety when younger, and didn't sleep with that, but I know him well, and he is not anxious. He has changed schools and gone to secondary now, but the change in routine has been minimal- they are in one classroom all day, teacher comes to them, so not getting stressed and lost wandering round a big new environment. He was also very glad to go to secondary, and is quite mature for an 11yo, and ready to move up. The school day is also 30 minutes shorter than he is used to, and there are no extra-curricular activities at present, so he's not struggling with the changes.
He has good 'sleep hygiene' in that no screens/phones before bed, dark dark room, room is cool and bed is warm etc.
Any ideas on how we can get out of this cycle and get him sleeping well again please?
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11yo just cannot get to sleep- how to help?
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Montmartre · 05/10/2020 18:32
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