DS is 8, and is a genuinely lovely boy most of the time. Affectionate and friendly and chatty and generally has nice manners etc. Can be a bit boisterous (running around the house like a whirling dervish if he’s bored) and a bit entitled (mummy can you get me a drink) but 95% of the time totally fine.
However at the moment bedtimes are another story. It’s like a switch flicks, suddenly a tiny thing will trigger a really OTT response. He’ll start laughing in our faces, throwing things around the room, being really defiant and disobedient and this will go on for about 45 minutes, and then there will be another flick of the switch, he’ll burst into tears and apologise and want lots of cuddles and reassurance and then it will come out that he’s anxious about something the following day.
We talk all the time and I am responsive and proactive in fixing issues at school etc, I’m as sure as I can be that he’s not being bullied and has plenty of friends. Teacher is generally positive about his behaviour at school and he loves it when he’s there. He also does this at weekends too, so it’s not just when he has school the following day. I feel like I’m walking on eggshells, and I have no idea if I’m handling it properly. He’s completely aware that his behaviour is unacceptable and would never do this for Grandma for example. He’s also physically big and strong so I can’t pick him up and put him in his room for example.
Any suggestions?
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Normal 8 year old behaviour? Or something else?
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Whattodo121 · 05/10/2020 06:31
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