I'm fed up. I realise that makes me very callous but I'm just hating life at the moment. DH is prone to depression and lost his Mum at the beginning of the year. We were all devastated as she was a very much loved part of the family. He was obviously gutted so that followed by lockdown, followed by him being a peripatetic teacher and not being able to carry on a normal routine, I've kind of been waiting for this.
He's great usually and is doing his very best to still function well and he is, but I'm just so bored of it. I'm bored of hearing about how he's not sleeping, of how miserable he is, of how anxious he is and I'm fed up with feeling like I'm the one having to keep everything going. DS started secondary school this year and that's been like walking a bloody tightrope. DH has been on anti-depressants for about three weeks and they are not touching the sides. I made him call the GP again and apparently they can take up to 8 weeks to kick in. 8 weeks.
The final straw was this morning when I had a call from my boss cutting my hours by two days a week. I've spent the morning trying to secure work for those two days as I know that DH won't cope with getting another job at the moment. In true form (for someone with depression) he hasn't even asked how I'm feeling about it.
Our sex life is non-existent and that's my fault because I don't think I've ever found him less attractive. I do realise that I am being very unfair and very unkind.
So yeah, tips for a. me being a nice, more understanding human being and b. for helping him, would be greatly appreciated.
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Tips for coping with a depressed husband
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Seriouslymole · 29/09/2020 12:06
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