DD2 has just started sixth form in our nearest city. We live quite rurally.
She has been meeting up with a nice crowd of that she has met through college and through two nice girls that she went to school with.
There is a little bit of drinking and smoking going on in the city centre parks and at the beach which sounds awful written down but they are honestly a good bunch of people and very kind. They are arty alternative types rather than the type to get an asbo ( sorry - I know that sounds wanky).
I should say that she’s the happiest I’ve seen her in months (and we’ve had serious anxiety and depression to contend with so am so relieved that she is getting well at last).
It would seem that this group are mostly allowed to stay out until 10.30-11 which I think it’s far too late as it can get quite edgy in town. Once recently, DD was staying at another girl’s house and was out until nearly 11 as the return to the house was out of her hands. DH and I agreed to stay in regular phone contact and not humiliate DD by going to pick her up or demanding she and the other girl go home immediately.
Do tonight she wants to meet this group again and stay out up to 11pm in the town centre.
WWYD? What curfew would you set for your 16yo if they were not at someone’s house? I’d much much rather they were not just hanging around in public green spaces but this seems to be the main activity.
It seems that DH and I are on the minority in not wanting to allow this.
WWYD/ what’s your curfew?
I didn’t have these issues with dd1 as she was always at someone’s house if out late.
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Curfew for 16 yo DD??
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ChickenNotSoLittle · 25/09/2020 17:51
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