Hi all,
Feel like all I post is doom and gloom but on here is the only place I can get advice.
I was off work sick for 2 weeks due to severe stress. I work in a notoriously stressful job. I had other things going on at home due to my own family issues and I hit a wall and became quite ill.
After the 2 weeks I then went on annual leave for 3 weeks which I had booked last year.
I let my manager know that I was going to be off sick for 2 weeks at the end of one of my working days (I am part time) and she just said OK in response and didn't ask why??
I have returned from my annual leave last week to a shit show. I only came back because I was scared to lose my job and I can't afford to go on sick pay right now. No one from work has been in touch during my time off or since. I just basically picked up where I left off 5 weeks ago and my work has been left to pile up and is all out of deadlines. I now have more work on top of that as more keeps coming. My supervisors only contacted me to pile more work on and give tasks upon tasks. I am supposed to have monthly meetings with my supervisor as part of my job but these have been non existant for months. I email to request and have even phoned her but to no avail.
I sit at my desk overwhelmed and close to tears. I am supposed to work 8.30-5 but have worked till 8 or 9 most nights and that's not just at home, that's in the community. I don't get paid overtime so have accrued a ridiculous amount of toil I will never be able to take back. Its not just me as my colleagues who I have reached out to are hitting breaking point too and are all working well over their hours (even full time staff).
No one from work has asked about the sickness or why I was off or what they can do to ease me back in.
Its actually worse since I came back as my workload is crazy, I'd need to work 23 hours a day to make a dent.
I manage my own diary but have to get the work done it's as simple as that, it often means I am out in the community late into the evening and no one (except my husband who knows I'm out but not where) knows where I am, if anything happens to me no one would know and it feels unsafe.
I don't know how to carry on like this or if work should have supported me with being off sick? Is that usually the case?
I can't leave this job because I am not qualified in anything else and would have to take a huge pay cut which we can't afford with childcare etc..
Please can someone advise how I make all this more managable when my supervisor and manger barely acknowledge me and just keep piling on more work?
How do I avoid a second round of burnout and what can I ask work to do to help?
Thanks
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Has anyone got any experience of being off work sick and going back
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Notsurewhatsgoingon · 17/08/2020 14:17
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