I met my current partner about 3 1/2 years ago. I was going through a separation with my ex-wife, all fairly amicable. I have 2 kids that live with me half the time. My current partners now lives with me. We have a very good relationship apart from when it comes to the finances. I have managed to accumulate quite a lot of assets and cash have a number of companies so make a decent income. My partner is not really bothered about money and has very little in the way of assets or cash. She spent a lot of time working abroad and stopped all that to be with me (and it was about time ) I did know this at the time we met. Since then I have asked her to do 2 things. The first is to do something that will contribute towards our retirement. I am 45 she is 38. Not asking for a lot, just something so I don't have to fund everything for the both of us. The plan was for her to buy a house and rent it out, in exchange I would pay all our current bills. That has simply not happened and all I get are excuses as to why it hasn't happened. I have sold a number of companies and dont really accept excuses so find that really hard to deal with. The second is to sign a cohabitation agreement to protect my assets. I plan to give a lot to the kids at some point. She refuses to even read the agreement. My divorce cost me a significant amount of money so I want to protect the assets for my future and the kids. I for pretty much pay for everything to allow her to sort out her financial situaion.
It has got to the point where I either accept the situation or ask her to leave the house and stand on her own 2 feet. It is impossible to talk through as she just gets hysterical. Any suggestions ????
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Cohabitation Agreement - A different perspective would be appreciated ?
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PCBristol · 13/08/2020 08:41
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