Hello, newbie here.
Sorry this is long but please bear with me
We inhertited my husbands family home when his parents died a few years ago. His family owned it for decades and he grew up there.
Neighbouring house is rented and the tenants had used mother in laws pathway when she was dying, they knocked on the wall if she made any noise - tv radio or talk cds.
We moved in, got the place renovated, updated and moved in. We did say to them taht the part of the walkway they were using was ours, in front of our house and politely asked them to use their own walkway. Which they did.
I'm disabled and need to hold the outside communal stair handrail. They put flower pots on the edge of the steps, planed pampas grass on the edge so the sharp fronds are overhanging the steps. I asked them on several occassions to move them "Yes I'll do it later". Later never came.
One morning 5.00 a very loud crashing from next door - husband knocked on door to see if all ok. No reply - tried later - nothing, so put a note through their letterbox - is everything ok as we heard a loud noise" Nothing.
Still no movement on the flowerpots so we spoke to the family lawyer - they said you have given them reasonable notice, put a note through their door asking them to move the pots or you will move them yourslef. We did this, they did nothing so a week later we moved the pots.
They called the local council neighborhood disputes team - I explained to them about the bahaviour, which included them knocking on walls, flicking the blinds everytime I am out in our own garden, vacuuming at weird odd hours of the day. The upshot was the concil agreed with us - THEY were being antisocial.
We got a wall built between the houses on our side of te plans dividing line, with about 4 inches of our ground on their side of the wall. Weeds grew. I was out painting the fence (on our side) picked a weed as the male half of nextdoor came out "Dont pick our weeks " I swear he actually said that!
Husband suggested we call antisocial dept at the council to advise them of this for their files. They came out and again agreed that the neighbours were totally in the wrong.
Their garden and house is an untidy mess. Their tenancy their issue not mine I know. Someone has contacted tehir landlords about the mess and lack of care they are showing on their property.
They are not on benefits, both have good jobs, two childrenso poverty is not an excuse.
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HijabiVenus · 12/08/2020 10:14
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