He's mid 50s and potentially has a life threatening illness, although hopefully it will be treated, we have a long road ahead.
We've had a terrible night, he's been in a lot of pain but eventually the pain killers have kicked in and he's now fast asleep and snorring loudly . I have not been back to sleep. Today he will rest all day while I have to do a day's work.
It's not his fault and mostly I am kind and considerate but I don't know how to get through today and I'm feeling angry with him. Whilst basically a decent bloke, he's one of those middle aged men who could never be told about smoking/drinking/eating well, so whilst it would be OTT to say this is self inflicted and he never drank to huge excess etc, I do feel he could have protected himself and therefore me and DC better.
Is it usual to swing between feeling very sorry for him and being actually quite angry with him?
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DH is seriously ill and I don't feel as sympathetic as I should
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FinnyStory · 12/08/2020 06:15
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