Monumental friendship fallout from a split 2 years ago. Have had great advice when posted on here before.
I left an abusive marriage, told joint friends the extent of the abuse, a few of whom didn't believe me, were judgmental and even got in touch with my parents after believing DH to suggest I was mentally unstable (!)
I ended contact with 4 friends after some misguided and inappropriate comments and messages from them, asking them to give me some space and privacy. Obviously that was very hurtful to them and they reacted badly.
I'd like to get in touch to a) apologise for the hurt I caused and b) wish them well. It is very painful to know I have hurt them, even though they were total bellends. I did what I had to do to survive, but can now acknowledge how my actions were felt as unkind.
WWYD? Send a brief message, or let it go?
I do not want a friendship with any of them, but would like to make amends.
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Build a bridge or let it go?
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waytheleaveswork · 09/08/2020 19:32
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