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What did your partner/husband get you for your 40th

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hopingtobedally · 07/07/2020 14:48

As above thank you

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TheFlis12345 · 07/07/2020 14:49

A beautiful Hermes silk scarf.

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Aebj · 07/07/2020 14:49

A bike and I love it. Also had a party

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SissySpacekAteMyHamster · 07/07/2020 14:50

diamond earrings

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Snooper22 · 07/07/2020 14:50

Trip to New York

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MaidofKent78 · 07/07/2020 14:52

Nothing yet! He promised me a Polo lesson but I just haven't got around to it yet. I'd hoped to do it this summer but hasn't happened yet for obvious reasons...

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Summer41 · 07/07/2020 14:55

Nothing "special" because it was my 40th, he spent the same amount as usual, didn't get a card with 40 on it, no banner or balloons, no party or special thing to celebrate. I treated him the same back on his "special" birthday six months later! Apparently they don't do special birthdays in his family and he couldn't understand why I was upset I didn't get anything extra for this milestone.

Why do you ask?

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UserErrorMessage · 07/07/2020 14:55

Nothing - I prefer to chose my own stuff!

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HornedBeefCash · 07/07/2020 15:01

A car (second hand)
It was that or a weekend away somewhere.
From money I've been gifted from parents and family I'm going to get my 'colours' done (not hair)

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bigmove2020 · 07/07/2020 15:02

Will let you know in a few days time

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Sunnydayshereatlast · 07/07/2020 15:04

A necklace I chose myself. He ruined the day with his man child behaviour..
He was an exh by my 41st...
Grin

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Whattheduck · 07/07/2020 15:11

A surprise long weekend in Barcelona.
I didn’t know where we were going I was just told to pack a weekend bag and I’d find out once we were at the airport.Our dd was 5 at the time and he’d sorted out for his dm to come and stay.I’d always wanted to go to Barcelona and I loved it.

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Apolloanddaphne · 07/07/2020 15:11

I got a beautiful watch but I chose it together with DH.

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Strokethefurrywall · 07/07/2020 15:12

Apple iwatch
Diamond ring
Party
Weekend at an eco-lodge in Honduras
Flew my sister and best friend over as a surprise (we live in Caribbean)

Best birthday ever.

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SecretWitch · 07/07/2020 15:13

A vacation to my happy place..Yellowstone National Park.

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JudgeRindersMinder · 07/07/2020 15:14

I personal plate for my car (Audi 😂) so I’m a double wanker in my terms 😂

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JudgeRindersMinder · 07/07/2020 15:14

MN terms!!

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Proudpeacock · 07/07/2020 15:14

Eternity ring that I chose

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OlivetheTree · 07/07/2020 15:16

Erm, a clock radio. I was quite pleased but with hindsight...

We went to a nice hotel too though.

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buckleten · 07/07/2020 15:20

I got a personal number plate and a surprise long weekend in the Channel Islands, which was lovely!

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BrieAndChilli · 07/07/2020 15:20

It’s mine and DHs 40th this year.
DH doesn’t do birthdayS really and isn’t bothered. We don’t have loads of spare money for fancy hotels and diamonds!!! So normally something small from the kids on normal birthdays.
He was planning to go away climbing (which he does every year) and I was planning to go to New York with friends next Jan. all plans up in the air at the moment!
Also desperately trying to save for a house deposit so can’t see us buying each other any big presents anyway

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foreverandalways · 07/07/2020 15:22

Fabulous surprise trip to Dubai x

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nutellafortea · 07/07/2020 15:32

What I always wanted: to spend 3 months camping in France with our bicycles. I had to work a bit from the tent to keep business running, still it was very memorable - one of the best trips of my life.

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Peacenquiet2 · 07/07/2020 15:35

50 quid in a card 🤔

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Lottapianos · 07/07/2020 15:35

A lovely pair of Adidas trainers (chosen by me) and dinner at L'Escargot in Soho

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TheTurnOfTheScrew · 07/07/2020 15:36

UK weekend away for the family in a lovely hotel, which was exactly what I wanted.

A little over a year before our (shared) 40ths we talked about doing a big holiday to NYC and Cape Cod to celebrate, but then thought why wait, and did that for our 39ths instead.

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