Been living in a house share for nearly 6 years now (hopefully buying a place soon though) and so I’ve had a number of different housemates over the years in the same house. They always tend to be either a bit creepy/pervy or very bossy or a selfish bully or a downright liar (telling tales to landlord about other housemates which are untrue) and the lockdown breakers (now having large gatherings in the shared house putting me at risk)
I’ve probably lived with 20 different housemates over the years and about 80% have fit into this category. The other 20% often keep themselves to themselves and are hardly in the house anyway.
I do wonder if it’s because most people in houseshares aren’t there by choice - either they’ve broken up with their partner so can’t afford their own place anymore, from abroad and a bit homesick or financially not well off enough to afford to rent a place of their own. I don’t really live with students so it’s often people who feel they’re too old for a house share.
It’s just so draining.
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Is it me or are houseshares just full of bullies constantly?
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Ukelele3 · 23/05/2020 13:57
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