Hi all,
dog behaviour situation and could really use some help from some knowledgeable dog people!
So as not to drip-feed, my dog is seven and for four years of his life, I was in an abusive relationship. He's never himself been aggressive but is protective of me, probably because of our past. Up until now, he's never bitten anybody though.
I've now got a new partner and we've been living together for a year and for the most part, we all get along. But there's some worrying behaviour from the dog and I don't know how to sort it - some examples:
- My partner was tickling me the other night and I was shrieking, as you do. My dog launched himself across the room and bit my partner's side He didn't draw blood and immediately ran behind the sofa (so he didn't continue savaging my partner sort of thing.) He's only tiny btw, he's not a great big Alsatian or something.
- Yesterday, my partner grabbed me to give me a cuddle - it was a nice moment. But my dog came shrieking around the corner like the bloody cuddle police and started barking at my partner.
- Every morning, my partner gets up and leaves for work before me. When my partner leans down to give me a goodbye kiss, my dog growls at him. This is every morning.
So I'm at a loss really. I want both to be happy, and both dog and partner are non-negotiable in my life. I also sympathise with my dog because he's seen some terrible things happen to me so I think he thinks he's protecting me. Unless he's just being plain old jealous? Would be interested to hear some opinions on this. He is quite spoiled too and my partner says it's probably more likely to be that.
So yeah, help Mumsnet! Anybody had experience of this?