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I work in a small 20 people team. Some are acquaintances. Some are actual friends.
I was off ill last week. My husband took my son to see his grandparents as they were visiting a local seaside town and they stayed overnight. I myself went to my Mum's overnight as my anxiety meant I couldn't stay in the house lone, along with being poorly.
A comment was made by my boss when I came back on Monday when I said I had been in bed all week. Something in the way he said it made me think he doubted it.
HR was here for another issue today and I was hauled in.
My boss said a social media post had been brought to his attention during my sick period and he produced 2 A4 printout's of 2 photos of my son on the beach posted by my DH/MIL. I had been tagged in them.
He asked did I have anything to say about this. I said I had been off ill, at home, then went to my parents overnight when DH and DS were away.
He said that he had to ask me about it because people's perception was that they were covering my work as I was ill hen this was seen.
I reiterated the above and he said he hoped I understood why he had to ask. HR said she understood as her mum will tag her in photos of her daughter when they are out and she's not there.
Thing is, I am livid.
I have removed ALL colleagues from facebook. This includes people that ARE my friends.
I am livid I wasn't asked, by whoever has told work about this, what the deal was and they added 2 and 2 together and got 5.
I have had no apology and am sat here, feeling so fucking angry and looking at my colleagues thinking which cunt did this.
Dunno why I'm posting really. Just angry and upset.
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Hauled in by HR - I was off ill!
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iwasoffill · 27/02/2020 13:45
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