7 years I've been with my H. I'm 28. We're having a bit of a hard patch at the moment and I'm living back with my parents because I'm dealing with my mental health and I want to sort that out.
I sat there tonight listening to him on the phone talking about if we get through this, if we get back together and I thought fuck me ive got no one. I've somehow managed to only have mutual friends and all his family have pulled rank now so they're ignoring me. I always loved my mil. My sil (not his sister) has told him everything I've ever whinged about during lunches.. I'm in the middle of nowhere struggling with my mental health and I have have 1 friend that isn't intertwined with him.
I do hope we can get through it, of course I do. But I'm not going to go back the same person, I'm going to get myself fitter, healthier, better with finances and I'm going to join some bloody groups! I want my own friends.
I really want to block his family on social media but I know it will cause issues.
I'm really worried that he wouldn't want to reconcile and I'm stuck here forever, I love him so much but obviously I can't force him to be with me.
Anyone else had a wake up call?
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Fucking massive wake up call
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SingleSidedShoulderShrug · 16/02/2020 21:51
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