I can't face AIBU as I'm feeling pretty fragile already about ongoing issues with DD massively minimising unacceptable behaviour from men towards her & it scaring me to death for her as she's more angry with me, than she is with the sleaze bags harassing her.
Last night a chat over her photography assignment revealed that she won't go to a particular photography shop anymore because a staff member, who she describes as being at least in his 30s targets her as soon as she goes into the shop & has repeatedly asked her out, insisted on her phone number when paying etc. She felt very uncomfortable with this as
A. Her student card puts her age at between 16-18, so he knows she's young, but does it anyway.
B. He's also targeted other same age girls she knows
C.The nature of the shop means that she will need to give phone numbers/address at times, which she's now very uncomfortable with due to this guy.
Apart from the obvious anger that he's making her feel this way, this is by far the cheapest local shop for camera stuff & photo processing. Meaning it's costing us more. Conversation was left as, "I'll sort it out"
So I've messaged the company this morning explaining that they are losing custom due to what I feel is quite predatory behaviour towards young girls by a member of staff old enough to know better. Received a very positive response thanking me for reporting it as they as a company take behaviour of this sort very seriously & will address it with a staff meeting.
I've just told DD & she's absolutely gone ballistic. I have no right as she's an adult & it's not my call to report it - she isn't an adult yet. I've now made things worse as he'll know it's her, he won't plus lots of screaming at me that she hates me & wont ever talk to me or trust me again.
Was I right to report, DH certainly thinks so, but the way she has kicked off has shaken us both
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Was I Right in Reporting Inappropriate Sales Staff Behaviour??
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RockinHippy · 27/01/2020 14:22
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