Perhaps I'm being ridiculous, or lazy, or something. Recently had DD2, she's a few months old now. Feeling physically well myself and both kids are thankfully happy and healthy. Have a good DP who works hard and is secure financially. But I can't help but feel, for the last few years, that my life is just so small? I have no hobbies anymore, don't really spend time with friends (most don't have kids) apart from the odd night out which I just feel deathly hungover after, which puts me off going out in the first place. Most days I just throw on a tracksuit and do the school run, tidy the house, get some groceries, do nap times, make bottles and so on. I see people up and out walking around our estate (with babies) or buzzing in and out of the house in their cars all day doing things, and I just feel like such a loser. Even when I went back to work after DD1 I remember feeling like I just didn't have a full life. I am not depressed, at least I am almost sure I'm not, because I do love it when I'm out and about and really enjoy chatting to people etc. Just can't seem to even see the point of putting a pair of jeans on when all I do is the childcare slog and end up with Bolognese and spit up all over me anyway.
Do I need to just get over myself and put some effort into living my life and making myself feel good? I have only just turned 30 and really feel like I shouldn't have this mindset at all.
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Anyone else feel like their life is so small?
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Postpartumconundrums · 23/01/2020 14:55
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