I have 3 children DD aged 22, at university lives away most of the year, DS aged 19, working 30hrs per week, DD just 18, has an apprenticeship, shocking money, but she is sticking to it so far. I have been a single parent for 11 years. I met my husband 5 years ago, he lives and works on the EU, we got married in October last year, we are so in love and have been commuting as much as possible for 5 years, I could move abroad, this would be easier in terms of DH work yet this would mean leaving my kids all be it I could travel home on a weekly/fortnightly basis, my son is excited for me to do this, my girls less so, particularly the youngest who is finding it very difficult to share her thoughts and speak about how she feels. For me, I feel like I have been treading water in my life, certainly for the last 21/2years, we have moved to a smaller cheaper house in the uk due to me being made redundant and only securing temporary contracts since then, the house is two bedrooms, i have been sleeping on the floor for two years in the living room, along with my husband when he comes over, it is getting rediculus. I want to move forward with my life, but not at the detriment to my kids, I would be interested to hear anyone’s thoughts, am I being too considerate/or selfish, I feel like my life is pouring away and we are all having quite a poor quality of life, thanks
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