DS is 16, child number 3 of 6. He's in yr 12 of 6th form. We all live together except eldest DD, she's settled and expecting a baby.
DS was badly bullied for around 18 months back in year 7 and 8. I posted about it on here, might have had my old name then. We had police involvement, he was hospitalised several times. No-one was prosecuted although ringleader was cautioned.
We moved him schools in year 8. He's been fine at school although he completely reinvented his past, Denies the bullying ever happened, gave up his world competition level streetdancing and never speaks of it.
About 18 months/2 years ago the ringleader and 6 mates cycled 5 miles to the village next to us looking for him, they assumed we live in the village, we don't. Luckily ds wasn't down the park with his mates who do live in the village that day but they told their parents as the bullies confronted them and told them they had a price on ds Head so make sure to tell him. We called the police and ringleader was visited by police.
Fast forward to summer. We hosted after prom party in our garden, 120 youngsters, we were present as we're 3 other adults. Day after at clean up we found absolutely loads of those cream canister things.
Had stern words with Ds about the idiocy of doing that.
Fast forward to July, a parent sent me a video of my ds, her D's and another friend smoking a bong in a local park.
DS was relieved of his phone, tech etc and grounded. Swore it wouldn't happen again.
Couple months ago found weed in his room whilst putting clothes away, again grounded, tech etc.
Same old, same old.
Today I knew something was up so I questioned my 22 year D's, I could see he was bothered by something. He showed me video evidence of D's and couple of mates snorting something. DS has told me it's mdma but DH has found messages on his phone that suggest it's coke.
I'm curious, I don't know what to do. He says it's not kids at school but people who don't go to the school. Obviously he's grounded but I'm so worried. Drugs scare me so much. He so wants people to like him, he's got such a lot of hidden stuff that never got dealt with. I'm not saying it's ok but I used to be scared of opening his bedroom door in case I found him dead.
DH is downstairs with him now. I'm putting younger kids to bed.
I've never seen my older DS so angry. He was literally shaking when he showed me.
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16 yr ds taking drugs.
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Spotsbeforemyeyes · 02/12/2019 21:45
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