Hi there
I just joined mumsnet today. Needed to vent and maybe get some words of encouragement!
I’m having the worst year I’ve ever had. My head feels like it’s going to explode! March was my birthday, I invited a few friends over for quiet drinks, it was a disaster! She got so drunk on wine, became very argumentative (which she has previous for) her and my fiancé ended up rowing, she kicked our bedroom door open and hit him. It was awful, we’ve been friends since we were kids but my fiancé wants nothing more to do with her and she was without question going to be one of my bridesmaids. She said stuff to him that he said he’ll never forgive which i understand. We’re kind of talking through text now but not actually spoken, she apologised to me but only after I contacted her about 3 months later! Anyway, on top of that, my fiancé was made redundant and he’s now working for himself but it’s quite stressful as the wage is not guaranteed each month and we’re both very worried about keeping our house. My fiancé’s dad had a stroke a few months ago and thankfully he survived but aspects of his personality have changed and he’s going to have to move into sheltered housing. His mum has Alzheimer’s. I was taken to court back in May as my ex partner and father of my daughter has caused problems for 6 years since I left him. He’s a nasty piece of work and I don’t think he’ll ever stop. Very controlling, narcissistic and Jekyll and Hyde type personality. I’m exhausted with it. I’m on anxiety tablets due to the stress he’s caused. I had to change solicitors and my parents are helping with the cost but it’s bankrupting us. To top it all off my dad has just been diagnosed with skin cancer Stage 2 Melanoma. He just had a scan to see if it’s spread, so waiting for results of that. I honestly don’t know how much more I can take. I couldn’t sleep last night. Eventually went back to bed at 2am and cried. Wtf is going on this year?! I’ve been getting heart palpitations again which was why I was put on tablets, and the other night I couldn’t breathe properly, almost like a panic attack. I’m struggling with work, I work on reception, it’s hard if you’re feeling miserable, to look happy for everyone. Can anyone help?? Thanks x
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Buddlyboos · 16/10/2019 14:30
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