Bit of a weird problem to have I know...but it's a mild problem nonetheless.
DD2 is 11 and she's always been very popular. Socially skilled, she finds making friends very easy and is often in demand.
This has been the case since she was tiny. However, she's recently been finding it a bit much.
In previous years, Halloween has been a big deal to her and she;s enjoyed a variety of parties or trick or treating with friends.
This year, she's got so many friends who want to do different things with her that she's decided she wants to stay at home with me and have a movie night and sweets...to dress up for fun and answer the door to trick or treaters.
I feel a bit and have spoken to her about not feeling responsible for anyone else;s happiness...and that if she chooses to go out with one friend or group of friends, then that's HER choice.
But no...she's set on the idea of a night in.
Is it ok do you think? I told her that it's good to please yourself once in a while and that she should do what she wants.
She insists this is what she wants. I'm just a bit confused as she's always enjoyed the social aspect...she's not been scared of anything by the way...she's a true ghost fan...loves spooky stuff in general.
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Anyone got a popular child who sometimes struggles with it?
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BillHadersNewWife · 16/10/2019 14:30
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