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Jehovah's Witnesses

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 11:37

Interested to see what others have done in these situations or if they've even been in these situations.

6 months ago I had JW knock on my door. I answered not knowing who it was as I'm in an upstairs flat. Can't see who's at my door. I was polite, let them read their passages. Told them I was agnostic and have no faith that I believe in. I don't believe in God. They continue to return the next few weeks. Stupidly answer the door cos again, don't know who it is.

Started a job that meant I was out more. Came home to a note through the door with their number on to contact them. I ignored it.

Fast forward to two weeks ago. At home for an important gas inspection. Doorbell is broken so left a note addressed to the gas engineer with my contact number to let me know when he's downstairs. (Arranged through my estate agents so I had no contact details for him). Appointment was between 8 and 12. I'm not gonna stare about my window until he arrives.

He does the appointment, I rush off to the doctors appointment I had straight after. Then I get a phone call.

A woman answers asking if it's me. "Is this X? I see you have a gas appointment."

"Sorry who is this? I've had that appointment"

"Is this X? Your note says you're having a gas inspection. I'm one of the witnesses."

So I'm like fuck, witness to what? To a crime? Start freaking out (there was an incident that happened to me last year that involved police so I panicked that maybe someone had come forward to something).

"Yes this is X, witness to what?"

"I'm the JW"

At this point I was in a panic 😂 but annoyed she had looked at a note not addressed to her and taken my number. I make my excuses as I'm at the doctors and end the call.

Then she texts me. Asking to let her know when she can come back. Or she will come by when she's near. I ignore it.

Fast forward to today. Doorbell still broken. Someone's banging on the door downstairs loud enough for me to hear upstairs. I look out the window (while on the phone to someone) and can't see anything. Look again a few minutes later and there she is. Staring up at me shouting at the window.

"ARE YOU ON THE PHONE?"

"Yes... waves phone"

She walks off. She will be back. I know it.

WHY

I know I look like a might need saving from Hell but I made it clear what my views were.

I'm not good with confrontation. I'm always overly polite to people and kick myself for it after.

Why do they do this? I don't want to be a JW. I don't want a religion. She even brings a really old lady with her and it makes me feel terrible to want to say something to this poor old lady. I can't be rude to an old lady 😂

I'm not fixing my door bell ever. I'm annoyed she took my telephone number. (Not sure if IABU for that) and I'm annoyed that she bangs on the door downstairs. There are 3 flats here, not just me. Why disturb everyone else?

HAAAALP

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 11:39

Also just had a chuckle to myself about my username.

I didn't have it as that for the purpose of this thread. It genuinely already was that.

Oh the irony 😂

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Bluntness100 · 11/10/2019 11:42

I had something similar, to the extent I wondered if you were me at the beginning,

I was nice to mine, so they started coming back, started reading me bible passages and shit, till eventually I had to tell them I wasn't converting ever.

I was only nice out of politeness, but they took that as some form of sign I was prime conversion material and that standing on my door step quoting psalms etc was a really good idea. Confused

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 11:46

@Bluntness100 oh thank fuck I'm not alone.

I was polite but made sure they knew I was agnostic.

I've had people stop me in the street before. Once were Christians. They weren't as pushy, I'll chat to anyone me. They were advertising an event they'd put on. They were young girls doing some promoting. I mentioned about the JW. They were really stern all of a sudden and were like NO. Do not go there.

It's all very strange. I don't personally understand it. I respect the fact people have beliefs (although I sometimes think there is a fine line...)

To be fair, I look like I need saving. I'm heavily covered in tattoos. Probably think I'm the spawn of Satan.

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kalinkafoxtrot45 · 11/10/2019 11:46

Just say you’re not interested and please don’t call again. Or write to your local Kingdom Hall and let them know you don’t want to be visited. They should take you off their list and tell this woman not to bother you further. She sounds unreasonably zealous, that’s a bit over and above the usual door knocking that they do.

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 11:47

@kalinkafoxtrot45 oh my, they have a list?!?!?

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fourquenelles · 11/10/2019 11:48

Contact your local Kingdom Hall and tell them to stop the visits to you. That has worked in the past.

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Walnutwhipster · 11/10/2019 11:49

Just ask to go on the 'do not call list' job done.

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 11:51

I literally had no idea there was a list or even someone I could complain to 😂

I'm very uneducated when it comes to religions. Lack of interest.

I will look up about the Kingdom Hall.

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lyralalala · 11/10/2019 11:52

The list is basically everyone who hasn’t asked to be removed from it.

Contact the Kingdom Hall and they’ll take you off it.

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AliceLittle · 11/10/2019 11:54

Tell them you're going to sue Jesus for breaking GDPR.

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 11:54

Part of me is now slightly interested to find out why on earth they do this.

Like, is it their job? 😂

I remember watching a documentary on Mormons once (not sure why)

They like... went to a school for two years with zero contact with anyone including family. All to go and convert people.

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 11:55

@AliceLittle don't 😂 I thought about things to send via text...

I'm just not brave enough to do it.

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 11:57

I think I might put my Halloween decorations up early. 🥴

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RolyRolyRolyPoly · 11/10/2019 11:59

First mistake, I don't answer the door if I am not expecting anyone! Ever!
Second, you could write a note on your door to say uninvited visitors not wanted please dont ring or text either or something like that. If you know her name, you can address it to her, since she's a keen door note reader

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Alsohuman · 11/10/2019 11:59

It’s not their job but it is a requirement of their faith. The situation you’ve had is very unusual, OP. I tell them - entirely truthfully - that my mum was a JW and it’s not for me. Then they go away. They’re not supposed to harass people.

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BettyPitts · 11/10/2019 11:59

I just tell them I can't get enough oral sex and they don't come back.

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 12:03

First mistake, I don't answer the door if I am not expecting anyone!

I don't anymore after I discovered them. Doorbell won't be getting replaced either!

She's upped her game by now having my number and shouting at my window.

Gonna go Halloween decoration shopping today, specifically for items I can place on my windows.

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lyralalala · 11/10/2019 12:04

Part of me is now slightly interested to find out why on earth they do this.

Like, is it their job?

They believe that Jesus ordered them to spread the word so it’s part of their faith.

It’s also a very successful way of converting people - all of the JW’s I know started from being door knocked.

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Shockers · 11/10/2019 12:07

Halloween decorations will really convince her you need saving!!!

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LetItGoToRuin · 11/10/2019 12:10

As well as asking contacting the local Kingdom Hall to request being removed from the list, I'd also complain that one of their members 'stole' a phone number intended for someone else, and seek their assurance that this number has been deleted from their records and all devices.

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BobbyNewport · 11/10/2019 12:16

Tell them you used to be a JW and you've been disfellowshipped. They'll avoid you like the plague.

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calmalamadown · 11/10/2019 12:17

"I'm sorry I don't agree with peddling religion door to door."

Hasn't failed yet.

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Nonnymum · 11/10/2019 12:33

I think you should complain they had no right to take your phone number or read a note addressed to someone else. That is an invasion of your privacy. I would write a formal letter of complaint to your local Kingdom Hall setting out what happened. And tell them you want confirmation from them they have destroyed your number and that they will not contact you again.

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isseywithcats · 11/10/2019 12:33

The last pair who knocked on my door i said sorry i would love to talk to you but i have a coven meeting in about ten minutes never seen two JWs run up my path so fast and funnily enough they didnt come back

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nottodaysatanlucifer · 11/10/2019 12:38

I'm glad I'm not seen as unreasonable for being annoyed about her taking my mobile number.

I googled local Kingdom Halls. Looks like there are three in a very small area 😂

Didn't even know what a bloody Kingdom Hall was.

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