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To be horrified at the idea of mandatory vasectomy

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theonerealdiva22 Wed 15-May-19 21:11:57

So now people want mandatory vasectomy for men. This disgusts me for several reasons
- I knows several men who fight for pro choice and this is what they get.
- they want "control of their own body". Yeah more like women have control of a man's body as well
- it will lead to future problems. If we do this then there will be people in a few years time complaining about it like the abortion debate now.
- it's not as reversible as it seems. Apparently it gets And harder to reverse as time goes on. So if your someone who decides not to have kids until 40 aka later in life (no shame on that have kids whenever you can safely have them) but if you did that theres less of a chance
- abortions still won't be fully unwanted. There will still be the situation here and there where someone gets excited to start a family, husband dies, Loses everything and can't support baby (hopefully none of that ever happens to anyone reading this)
Am I the only one who feels this way. Share this if you agree with me to give EVERYONE control over their own bodies

theonerealdiva22 Wed 15-May-19 21:12:40

If DH was controlling when I could and couldn't have the biological ability to have kids it would be seen as abuse by a lot of people but it's ok when I do it to him?

Gilead Wed 15-May-19 21:18:01

It’s a face book meme pointing out the inequality; nothing more.

theonerealdiva22 Wed 15-May-19 21:20:49

@Gilead a tonne of people actually want it. It horrifies me DS is shitting himself because people in our area are all for it and want it now!!! He's also pro choice as well as a Proud women's right supporter and he thinks it's unfair that this is his reward for doing that

Etino Wed 15-May-19 21:22:18

Please apply some critical thinking.

Gilead Wed 15-May-19 21:22:35

Where are you? If you’re dad is distressed support him, it isn’t going to happen and you know it.

Gilead Wed 15-May-19 21:22:51


BalthazarImpresario Wed 15-May-19 21:23:08

I doubt people do actuality want it, instead they want women's bodies to be their own and not governed by men or a made up book.

WeeDangerousSpike Wed 15-May-19 21:24:15

What on earth are you talking about confused

theonerealdiva22 Wed 15-May-19 21:24:45

Sorry if there's mistakes in it I've messed up my auto correct long story short I had to write an email and a tonne of the words weren't recognised but now I've added words that don't exist to my phones dictionary and I need to fix that

theonerealdiva22 Wed 15-May-19 21:25:22

@WeeDangerousSpike it's been all I'm seeing on my twitter literally tweets upon tweets upon tweets about it even when I block half the people they still show up!!!

OnlyFoolsnMothers Wed 15-May-19 21:25:57

Well it isn’t happening so can we shift back to the actual laws that have been passed

Outofinspiration Wed 15-May-19 21:26:13

What the fuck?

The 'mandatory vasectomy' thing is simply an illustration of what the equivalent of men having their bodies and reproductive rights controlled would be.

Are you trolling? You are not seriously suggesting that your grown up DS is actually 'shitting himself' that a load of women are going to hold him down and force him to have the snip are you? 😂

newtlover Wed 15-May-19 21:26:23

er, nobody is wanting this
if they were, I'd be against it
as it is I'm not going to waste energy on it, other than ti tell OP to calm down

CupoTeap Wed 15-May-19 21:26:53

Why aren't you telling your son to get a grip

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius Wed 15-May-19 21:27:12

Explain to your ds that people are trying to get men to realise how awful it feels having your reproductive rights taken away by a legislature made up mainly of people of the opposite sex to you, and that, in a parliament that is so heavily weighted towards men, it is not going to happen.

No credible political party would consider this as a policy - but one of the two major parties in America is legislating control over women’s bodies.

DamnShesaSexyChick Wed 15-May-19 21:27:19

Don't worry yourself, that would never happen because it is something which restricts men's rights, not women's.

theonerealdiva22 Wed 15-May-19 21:28:06

@CupoTeap because he's having it literally forced down his throat every time he leaves the house. People where we live aren't nice in fact illegal activity is regular and always covered up id rather not go into detail about that part for my own safety

mollysshadow Wed 15-May-19 21:28:13

This has to be a wind up hmm

AppleKatie Wed 15-May-19 21:28:24

You know that things written on the internet aren’t automatically true right?

theonerealdiva22 Wed 15-May-19 21:28:55

@Outofinspiration grown up? He's 15!!!!!! This is the stuff they're told about at school

theonerealdiva22 Wed 15-May-19 21:29:23

@AppleKatie when it's blowing up my life literally my life I'm too scared to think otherwise

mollysshadow Wed 15-May-19 21:29:26

No it isn't

Outofinspiration Wed 15-May-19 21:29:32

@CupoTeap because he's having it literally forced down his throat every time he leaves the house. People where we live aren't nice in fact illegal activity is regular and always covered up id rather not go into detail about that part for my own safety

Wha... ?

AppleKatie Wed 15-May-19 21:29:35

You live in an area (of the uk?) where you fear vigilante groups will force your DS to have a vasectomy against his will!???

No you don’t.

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