My son announced his engagement a few months ago and they have set the date for their wedding next year. He has his own business and they and her parents will be paying for the majority of the wedding. We will contribute and I am making their cake. Last week my daughter announced that she and her partner are getting married abroad the month before our son and will not be having anyone at the wedding apart from their children. She has also just announced a party/celebration the weekend before our sons wedding so that people can help them celebrate. I completely respect their choice to get married on their own abroad, however am slightly miffed that they have chose the week before her brothers wedding for their celebration in this country. I am happy to make them a cake too for their celebration but am a little confused as to whether we should offer to donate the same amount for something we will not be part of which will put a lot of financial pressure on us or whether just to give them a financial gift which will not be as much as we are donating towards their brothers wedding. Do we treat them both the same as we have always done? Help!
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Daughter is getting married abroad, just them and their children
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Diversion · 26/03/2019 23:28
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