I'm reading that AIBU thread about quiet people being disliked and it's got me thinking about those of you who are quiet but manage to fake confidence to get along in the world.
Is there some trick to it? And what the hell do you talk about??
For background, I have struggled most of my life with social anxiety and depression and I don't have any friends or a job...or much of a life.
Everything about me from my lack of small talk to my body language is so awkward. Other mums at pick up are so relaxed with eachother and chat happily and most are very friendly and wouldn't mind anyone joining in with there chat but I can't do it.
I find myself avoiding everyone, even though deep down I wish I didn't.
The worst thing is that while these other mums are making friends, they're setting up play dates etc so their children are obviously socialising with eachother so my failures are affecting my DS. It's rubbed of on him too I'm a failure as a mother and I'm letting him down!
Does anyone have any advice on faking confidence and making friends?
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How do you fake confidence?
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TripeAtFourPence · 20/03/2019 09:31
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