Hi,
Not asking this to be goady. I have been an SM for over 20 years and have low self esteem re my appearance (am mid 40's and look it. I've also had a 'hard life' eg. food poverty and no money for skin care and haircuts ect. in my 30s) Still in a low paid job. Anyhoo, as I've posted on here recently, ere's this guy at work, I've known him for a while in a purely professional way, worked on things together and felt nothing except what a nice helpful colleague. However, we had a meeting the other day and it was like BANG he's gorgeous and I must have him now.
However, because of my lack of looks, or rather because I don't feel attractive, I keep thinking: 'He'd be horrified if I asked him out' He's leaving, so part of me feels like it's now or never...but the self critical voice stops me.
So, I just wanted to see if anyone else felt the same at the start of their relationship and was proved wrong?
TIA
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Do you think that you are more/less/or equally physcial attractive than your partner?
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Justheretogiveaviewfrommyworld · 21/02/2019 16:43
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