Long story short - my sons friends Dad has been flirty with me for some time, I've done nothing to encourage it and just pretended it wasn't happening and ignored it. I've had the odd text which I've showed to my DH with rolled eyes, along the lines of "you looked really lovely today". I'm friends with his wife, I don't want her to think I'm doing anything inappropriate, how do I tell him to fuck off and not piss him off? Construct me a text!
God! My phone chopped a whole section out! So anyway, he approached me in Morrison's this eve and tried to give me a hug/kiss and a bit of a grope, I panicked and kind of ran off - he's texted to ask what he did wrong, how do I reply without being rude but telling him to leave me alone?
I don't feel comfortable with some of your behaviour. This evening when you tried to grope me was really inappropriate and I ask that you never behave this way towards me again. If it happen again I will not be so discreet.
OK, so my 12 year old DD recently had a 14 year old boy take her to a quiet place and say 'I wonder what boobs feel like', making her feel uncomfortable and threatened. She made an excuse to leave, came home and told me straight away.
I told her 'You do not need to be polite, he has been rude first'. That is all the advice you need. He has been rude first, you do not need to be polite. Tell him straight, you are married, he is married, you are not interested and to stop it.