Girl threw his indoor shoes down toilet. She was made to fish them out. Last night he said she didnt wash them, this morning he said she had to rinse them. Both times and to MiL he said they have been put in a plastic bag. Not sure how this will help them dry!
I've told him that he isn't to wear them, given him a plastic bag and told him to bring them home so I can wash them. That he should wear his indoor gym shoes today.
I don't think there's any point speaking to the head to be honest, they won't say anything about another pupil. From what I know of the girl, having to fish it out herself was probably deemed punishment enough. We've had issues with this girl before but that was over a year ago and I get the impression that it was silliness rather than maliciousness. DS wasn't overly upset, he seemed to think it was funny. but he has ASD so it could have been intended maliciously and it completely passed him by
Are you sure it happened, ask the teacher before jumping to conclusions. No they won't discuss the other child but they can the effect on yours. Maybe they were going to wash them overnight themselves for him.