Hello. I've found out I'm about 6 weeks pregnant. I've been with my partner for 18 months. I'm not sure how he'll react to the pregnancy I think he will be happy. I'm worried as I already have a 13 year old son I had when I was 18. I've always been on my own with him and I realise I'll get pulled apart on here but I don't know who his dad is. My friend who lives abroad has acted as my son's dad and as far as my son and partner are aware he is my son's dad. How do I tell my partner I'm pregnant with an unplanned baby and who he thinks is my son's dad isn't
I don’t think you need to worry about the second bit at this moment... if you haven’t felt the need to tell him you don’t know who the father is up until now then this doesn’t really change anything. In terms of telling him about this pregnant... just tell him! Then you can discuss it together.
I don't see how the matter of your ds' dad is suddenly important. It's nobody's beeswax but yours. It's a non issue. Nothing changes. The friend might be the dad. You don't know. Even if he's gay, gays can be dad's. Relax and concentrate on the new baby.