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How many people have you slept with?

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Sweetdisposition91 Sun 27-May-18 22:56:52

And how old are you?

Following on from the weirdest places you’ve done it thread.

Would you judge someone on the number of people they’ve slept with?

Stillwishihadabs Sun 27-May-18 22:58:37

I think it's 12. I am 42 but only DH for the last 20

BabiesDontNeedDaddies Sun 27-May-18 22:58:39

That really depends on how you define slept

Washpot Sun 27-May-18 22:58:56

Mid thirties and only my OH. Cant imagine being with anyone else tbh.

Washpot Sun 27-May-18 23:00:13

I'd like to say I wouldn't judge but honestly if be a little shock if someone had a large number. I don't know why and know I shouldn't but there you go.

The5000 Sun 27-May-18 23:00:26

Do you mean had sex with? What constitutes sex anyway?

Sweetdisposition91 Sun 27-May-18 23:01:05

Yes I mean have sex with, not just slept next to each other grin

Kattymanners Sun 27-May-18 23:02:19

Similar to washpot but mid 50s.

I feel lucky to be so compatible with my OH

JanetJacket77 Sun 27-May-18 23:02:23

What would be a large number?

HarryLovesDraco Sun 27-May-18 23:02:48

In a potential partner, I would be wary if it was a very high number, because it would probably speak to an issue with intimacy. But if I wasn't interested in shagging them then I wouldn't care.
I'm 38, currently single and had sex with around 40 people. I do wish it was more!

Sweetdisposition91 Sun 27-May-18 23:02:58

What would you consider a large number?

BabiesDontNeedDaddies Sun 27-May-18 23:03:21

Still depends how you define sex

Awwlookatmybabyspider Sun 27-May-18 23:03:53

100+ plus. I'm 42.

Whyohwhy65 Sun 27-May-18 23:04:41

4. I'm 24. Been with dp 6 years

HarryLovesDraco Sun 27-May-18 23:05:28

A large number for me would be 100+ I think. I would wonder how they fit them all in, whether they were monogamous during any serious relationships and whether they were into things I find gross like fetish parties

EB123 Sun 27-May-18 23:05:36

A large number, I'm mid 30's and have been with DH for nearly 9 years.

It really doesn't matter how many people someone has slept with, as long as everyone was consentimg and safe.

NameChangedForThisQ Sun 27-May-18 23:05:53

45. Am 28. Most of those between the ages of 14 and 16 sad

Washpot Sun 27-May-18 23:06:33

I think I'd consider over 10 to be a lot. Think I've lead a sheltered life 😂

Zoflorabore Sun 27-May-18 23:06:48

Around 20.

From 18-21 it was casual ( but safe ) sex whilst at university or on holiday etc but have been in 2 long term relationships with a few years break in between.

I am 40.

DorothyGarrod Sun 27-May-18 23:07:48

12 - I’m 34. I’ve been with DH for six years.

tethersend Sun 27-May-18 23:08:09

<counts fingers>

<takes off socks>

Err... come back to me.

chchchchchangess Sun 27-May-18 23:09:31

I honestly don't know but it's gotta be 40-50+ during my teens and 20s. I'm 39 now, been with DH (and only DH!) over a decade.

user764329056 Sun 27-May-18 23:09:39

56, am in my fifties

Carouselfish Sun 27-May-18 23:09:40

Between 20 and 25. I'm 37. Wow about PPs with only one. Very lucky if you've found someone who's not only great but great for you on the first try!

Haudyerwheesht Sun 27-May-18 23:10:03

I’d probably consider over 50 to be a lot but I wouldn’t really care tbh.

I’ve only had sex with dh. I’m 37 and we’ve been together 19 years.

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