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What things have you done that people would judge you for?!?

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BearsandHearts Sat 24-Feb-18 21:42:54

Ok this is a no judgement thread. I'll go first ...
I was married for 4 years. We split after 3 years, got back together 3 months later then split properly 6 months later. During that time he asked if I'd been with anyone else I said no. Truth is I slept with about 5 men in that time blush

BrazzleDazzleDay Sat 24-Feb-18 21:45:12

Its none of his business! I've probably done shit loads that people would judge me for, but I'm quite open about my life so certainly not embarrassed by any of it.

StealthPolarBear Sat 24-Feb-18 21:46:37

Op you're asking for this

StealthPolarBear Sat 24-Feb-18 21:47:02


NotUmbongoUnchained Sat 24-Feb-18 21:47:31

Where would I start grin

KellyBailey Sat 24-Feb-18 21:47:38

Things that MN would judge me for:
Multiple tattoos
Shop at Asda
Got DD's ears pierced aged 3
Use a toilet brush

BearsandHearts Sat 24-Feb-18 21:48:49


BearsandHearts Sat 24-Feb-18 21:51:48

What's wrong with asda?

KellyBailey Sat 24-Feb-18 21:53:34

According to MN Asda is chavvy and only sells crisps and fizzy pop.

BearsandHearts Sat 24-Feb-18 21:55:21

I must be a chav then

Midge1978 Sat 24-Feb-18 22:01:19

Bottle fed my baby.
Kissed someone who wasn't my boyfriend.

Pegashush Sat 24-Feb-18 22:01:27

I don't baby proof

My kids were weaned before 6 Months

I didn't breastfeed

I let my children cry

My daughters ears were pierced a week after her first jabs

Pegashush runs and hides behind her bruised, emotionally traumatised and disease ridden children

By mumsnet standards I am a shit mother gringrin ah well

ChangedToday Sat 24-Feb-18 22:02:42

I'm striking at the moment, proper standing on the streets with placards.

SomeKnobend Sat 24-Feb-18 22:03:15

I eat fast food. All. The. Time.

VladmirsPoutine Sat 24-Feb-18 22:03:36


ChangedToday Sat 24-Feb-18 22:04:01

Oh and both my kids went to nursery from about 7months.

BearsandHearts Sat 24-Feb-18 22:04:09

I found people judged me for extended breastfeeding so you can't win

dontbesillyhenry Sat 24-Feb-18 22:05:58

Convenience/processed food
I'm lazy
My house is a mess
I don't buy ethical clothing

I'm a disaster

goforkyourself Sat 24-Feb-18 22:08:33

Lol stealth I did the 'we were on a break' thing. Sadly, the twat had never watched Friends so the moment was lost grin

Megs4x3 Sat 24-Feb-18 22:09:06

A 'judgement' is simply an opinion. Whatever we do in life, someone would have done it differently. I wish we put less effort into trying to get people not to 'judge' and more effort into being less concerned what others think - unless someone is being harmed of course.

Midge1978 Sat 24-Feb-18 22:14:59

Oh I was a sahm too, judged for that!

Fairylea Sat 24-Feb-18 22:15:44

Oh all kinds of stuff.

Been married twice before I was 30. Been engaged 3 times. Left my first dh when dd was 6 months old (he was an abusive twat to be honest).

Spent most of my late teens working in a bar being an alcoholic and having an affair with a married man. Yep I was really horrid and totally stupid.

I have tattoos. I formula fed both my dc from birth because I found the idea of breastfeeding very uncomfortable to me personally. I let my dc watch unlimited tv and screens.

On the flip side.... mumsnet likes me (judging by what they normally like) because I own my own home, I was accepted into Oxford university- didn’t go because I nursed my Gran through terminal bowel cancer at home with me (which prob led to me going completely off the rails as an 18 year old - see above) and I am now tee total and have been for nearly 10 years and I am very outdoorsy now, with super active kids (to balance out the unlimited screens...)

Ah well. Better shoot myself now.

Oly5 Sat 24-Feb-18 22:17:25

Work full time and bloody love it and the money. Love my kids too but according to
Mumsnet I can’t possibly care about them

ScreamingValenta Sat 24-Feb-18 22:17:35

I smoke.

KanielOutis Sat 24-Feb-18 22:21:43

Where do I start...
I'm a devout Christian and have a lesbian mother. I was having regular sex at 13. I've been married twice. My disabled daughter went to nursery full time from 2 because I struggled to care for her. There's enough to keep the heckles of the congregation going for a while.

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