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What would be peoples red flags about you?

(39 Posts)
LeeCallaghan Mon 22-Jan-18 19:09:07

I often here this word on here so wondering what you think red flags about you would be

I will start
I don't have much money so maybe that as I can't take them on many good dates

yawning801 Mon 22-Jan-18 19:10:17

I love puns. You won't believe how many people have avoided me because of my love of puns!

TheQueenOfWands Mon 22-Jan-18 19:13:08

Moody, judgemental, introverted, prefer animals to people, impulsive, have periods of mania and then severe depression, OCD, watches splatter movies and laughs.

Really it's incredible anyone speaks to me ever.

phoenix1973 Mon 22-Jan-18 19:13:18

Ive got one child
Ive got 2 mates
I cant make small talk
Ive got Aspergers but im not saying that!
I'm a bit depressed.
I look fucked off alot...even when im content.
I'm not mad on babies for 2 long
Toddlers are too unpredictable for me
Teens speak a different language, mainly huffs, door slamming and eye rolling.
I've got strong political opinions.

Rainboho Mon 22-Jan-18 19:14:43

I’m needy blush

OrangeCarpet Mon 22-Jan-18 19:19:38

I hate men

thenewaveragebear1983 Mon 22-Jan-18 19:22:21

I’m strong minded and opinionated gobby
I am always on a diet
I’ve got 3 kids baggage

Not sure if these would be red flags? I thought red flags were things like jealous, possessive, borderline abusive behaviour that could escalate further into a relationship?

crackerjacket Mon 22-Jan-18 19:27:04

Sarcastic
Cynical
I am always well groomed - very suspicious
I have 'sexy' eyes

Loads of other stuff really

RatRolyPoly Mon 22-Jan-18 19:31:36

I've cheated in the past.

bonzo77 Mon 22-Jan-18 19:39:26

Resting bitch face.
Needs punctuality
Virtually no friends.
Very (too) tidy

ILoveDolly Mon 22-Jan-18 19:41:18

Always late
Has three kids
Shouty

Saz1995 Mon 22-Jan-18 19:45:35

Am very fiery and extremely protective, especially over my baby boy

SmiledWithTheRisingSun Mon 22-Jan-18 19:47:12

Hates doing housework.
Gets a bit shouty once a month.
Thinks she's some kind of health guru because she hasn't drunk any alcohol for 6 days then gets totally wasted on day 7 & cant cope with anything the next day
Is a feminist but... Does. Not. Empty. The. Bins.
Has opinions & shares them grin

SmiledWithTheRisingSun Mon 22-Jan-18 19:48:04

Ooh I forgot always late too! confused

Friedgreen Mon 22-Jan-18 19:50:31

Introverted, bottles up anger, very willing to castrate when I’m wronged...santa

AnachronisticCorpse Mon 22-Jan-18 19:51:46

Mentally ill, often drunk, very sweary. Oh, and very married.

Whatififall Mon 22-Jan-18 19:52:47

Terrible with money. Borrows to pay off debts then borrow from others to pay that debt off. Clear credit cards then fill them up again. I lie about how much/where from I've borrowed from.

Frith1975 Mon 22-Jan-18 19:53:34

Teetotal, humanist, very left wing, single for close to 1.5 DECADES, unambitious, poor and slightly scruffy.

BadaBingaling Mon 22-Jan-18 19:54:11

Can’t let things go
Opinionated
Holds a grudge for a long time
Holds people to high standards

KenForPM Mon 22-Jan-18 19:56:11

ASD, so few friends. Don’t really have any “hobbies”. Don’t drive. Don’t have a job. Normally these wouldn’t be a major issue, yet they’re often pointed out as ‘negatives’ on relationships threads. (Not so much the ASD, but the not-many-friends thing).

youngnomore Mon 22-Jan-18 19:57:33

I gossipblush

thelastjedi Mon 22-Jan-18 19:59:24

I'm the worlds biggest pedant and everything has to be exact or my world caves in blush

RefuseTheLies Mon 22-Jan-18 20:00:42

Dreadful with money
Very impatient
Too blunt / direct
Lazy. Seriously fucking lazy
On ADs
And I’m very fat!

slothface Mon 22-Jan-18 20:04:17

I'm poor (unpredictable industry and self employed)
I've never had a best friend
I'm cynical
I don't own my own house and probably never will (share a flat with a friend, I'm 28)
I don't want to get married or have kids
I have numerous mental health issues
I sometimes struggle with empathy
I can't drive
I despise housework, tidying and cooking

Basically all the reasons people use on here to drop a LTB!

loveablether Mon 22-Jan-18 20:09:10

Im messy and overly emotional at times
Can take or leave other people's kids
Hate small talk

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