Hi all- I've recently moved next door to a couple who have a few kids between them, and we hear them screaming through the walls constantly. We previously thought they were just a loud family and shouting at their dog, however today I've heard a far more horrible screaming match between the couple. The man (not the child's biological father) was f-ing and blinding about how the woman's son (about 6 years old) would not stop crying and how it was doing his f-ing head in etc. the gist of the argument was that he was frustrated how she didn't back him up when he was trying to deal with the child's constant crying. Not so bad until I heard his way of 'dealing' with it was to scream at the boy and shout at him for 'crying like a little girl.' He was screaming at the mother asking why she didn't say the same, and what was wrong with calling him a little girl? In his opinion this was the only way to stop it, and there was no mention of why he might be crying at every moment and is so reluctant to come out of his room. The mother barely answered and by the end of the row was going along with anything he said. The children on the terrace all play together outside, and when the little boy does come out can barely speak, and is constantly filthy. Their house is in an appalling state (we share an alley way) and there is dog filth all over their yard where the children play. I've had concerns over the last month but hearing this today and the poor child crying constantly is weighing heavy on my mind. The fact that he even told the mother to get her act together or someone at school would call social services makes me think they really may need some help and support. Am I over reacting??
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Frusso ·
17/06/2014 20:36
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