Don't want to drip feed so will give some background.
DD is nearly 6 and has had a friend since pre-school in her class let's call her S. She is in a "three" and is v friendly with a girl let's call her B. B is also linked to S through sibling ties so S is part of their group. DD has always said she is not really keen on S and has been quite upset and cross at times but I put it down to their age and normal friendship problems.
Anyway we had to give S a lift somewhere this WK and my God it was like this at FULL VOLUME to DD;
"Your in the baby seat I am in a big girl seat"(a booster she brought)
"I can dive in. I had a holiday in blah and got a book on Brave with presents."
DD "oh I really like Brave I have a book too..."
"Well I got toys with my book."
You get the idea...
DD would smile and try to talk about some stuff she did but was completely cut off really loudly.
"well we went here/ did this / was better / I can do more I have a bigger house.."
DH and I were like by the end of the journey. I did at some point have to cut in and say something about being boastful. S is very privileged and from what I see, never, EVER reproached by her parents despite being v rude at times.
I did ask DD how she puts up with it and she just kind of shrugged. I really think spending a day at school with this girl would drive me mad and I don't want her to feel like friendship is, well, competing and showing off. I have encouraged other friendships but she adores B so will always be linked I suppose...
Does anyone have similar experiences or advice on how it may pan out?
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Does your DD/ DS have a friend like this? Really overbearing competative girl alert...
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GhouliaYelps · 09/09/2012 19:08
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