Would they die? Would anybody die? Would the world implode?
DS will be 3 this year and is just teetering on the edge of the 'I want this' age - not that he knows Xmas is a time for getting great gifts, but if he sees something he likes in the 'let's-over-commercialise-your-innocent-and-impressionable-wee-kids' pages of an otherwise good comic, then he has a barny about wanting the stuff.
I don't believe that kids should get everything they want. I think that is astonishingly bad for them - and adults, let's face it (recession, anyone??). However, I've read a few threads on here which show that some parents really feel the pressure to buy, buy, buy.
Is it something all parents struggle with, or does it depend on how strict you are about stuff? We're pretty firm about setting boundaries in our household, so I imagine that whenever DS really gets into the whole materialistic childhood thing we'll give him gifts as we see fit (hoop and stick should be fine till he's 15 ) and still be firm about the rest. I certainly don't intend to stress about whether I can afford a £200 gift for him - don't think I've ever had such a pricey gift since my wedding day, so why should he?
Are we in the minority?
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What would happen if you DIDN'T buy your children the toy they are absolutely desperate for this Xmas?
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MrsMerryHenry · 27/09/2009 23:59
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