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Help! Teenage DD. No presents

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ArthurChristmas2 · 20/11/2020 22:48

So, my lovely girl is just 15. My shopping is pretty much done apart from her. I have no presents whatsoever. She’s never asked for anything, ever. She’s not into brands. She has a phone, a laptop, kindle, new camera for birthday. She doesn’t really need any new clothes. She rarely wears jewellery. She does a lot of dance but we’ve either had to buy equipment as it was needed or she has regulation uniform. I am so clueless it’s frightening. Please hit me with your DD lists and ideas. Desperately seeking something to get her (I also have to get both sets of grandparents).

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Holothane · 20/11/2020 22:53

Luxury toiletries and I mean luxury a weighted blanket, an oodie, dancers tights leotards quality ones, favourite dance books say a history of dance. Sorry not much help.

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FAQs · 20/11/2020 22:53

My 16 year old doesn’t know what she wants so I’m also struggling! I was thinking of the new Marc Jacob fragrance but otherwise I’ll be stealing ideas from your thread Grin

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merrygoround51 · 20/11/2020 22:55

Tickets for a show?

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KarmaNoMore · 20/11/2020 22:55

Amazon vouchers or the cash, sounds absolutely awful but that is the only thing that works for my “not materialistic” teen.

He doesn’t spend them straight away, but when he wishes for something, they are at hand.

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dementedpixie · 20/11/2020 22:56

Pyjamas, fluffy socks, cardigans, toiletries, etc
My dd is also hard to buy for as she isn't into clothes or make up

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dementedpixie · 20/11/2020 22:57

And cash doesn't really work either as she doesn't buy anything either

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Rainbowqueeen · 20/11/2020 22:58

AirPods
Powerbank
Massage voucher
Movie tickets
Coffee voucher
Make up or a voucher for a make up lesson
Decorative items for her room
Does she like to cook?
If she’s into dance would she like yoga pants, a yoga mat or one of those foam rollers to help you stretch?
Nice bath or skin products

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Chlordiazepoxide · 20/11/2020 23:01

Monthly Bakedin box? We get it monthly and make a cake together. It's lovely and she only engages if food is involved

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Ted27 · 20/11/2020 23:02

Young Driver lesson
gift cards for Greggs/Costa/Starbucks etc etc
watch
subscription to a magazine
camera accessories
photography book

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ktsc89 · 20/11/2020 23:03

Yes if she likes to cook then maybe a baking book and some equipment would be a good shout? Would keep her busy in lockdown?

A few other people have mentioned mini printers where you can print out pics from your phone?

A perfume. Some stuff for her room to make it more cosy so maybe fairy lights etc, little trinkets, something along that theme?

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Thewinterofdiscontent · 20/11/2020 23:05

Silk pillow cover ( good for face wrinkles and hair frizz).

Quirky earrings? Etsy has tiny bottled water or Greggs sausage roll earrings!

Books. Bit of feminist stuff? - Handmaids Tale etc.

Yoga mat

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ArthurChristmas2 · 20/11/2020 23:05

Thanks guys, it’s so tricky isn’t it @FAQs? She has never really liked money, it sits in her piggy bank until I find with horror how much is there and bank it. She works occasionally so earns a little bit and NEVER spends! I have been lingering over an oodie as she is always cold.
We have experience tickets from last Christmas still unused due to COVID. I’ve been a bit put off buying any tickets until we’re out the other side.
@Rainbowqueeen she’d love Airpods but she inherited my tiny ears and they don’t fit! She does love cooking but we’re big in the kitchen and I’m struggling to know what to add. I did get a crepe machine last year and it’s been a huge hit. She’s had a rotten year. Just feel I want to get something that’s right!

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Wornout12108 · 20/11/2020 23:07

My niece similar age is after a Hollywood mirror one of those table top
Ones with bulbs around the borders, little mix concert tickets and a new iPad case.
I have bought her some nice make up and skin care bits from Clinique. My mum has bought new bed covers, pjs and cosy fluffy socks.
Skin care, make up, voucher for Starbucks etc, voucher for favourite clothes shop, new bag or purse.
An experience day, last year we did a cupcake making and decorating class with my mum and other neice too which was fun then went out for dinner and "mocktails" afterwards which was lovely.

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PurpleFrames · 20/11/2020 23:08

I'm not that much older that your daughter!
Things I find/found useful

Good hairdryer

Sheet face masks- no mess! And good for photos as you can get animal ones etc

Lush voucher and or couple of fun products like a shower jelly or fancy bath/shower bomb that I couldn't afford for myself

T-shirt embroidery set - Asos has basically sewing by numbers sets but for trendy designs

Wax warmer - safer than candles as it's flameless but still makes nice smells

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Howmanysleepsnow · 20/11/2020 23:09

Led lights for her room
Guinea pig
Band merch
Make up
Books (Faye Bird)
Oodie
Hair curler
Make up
Plush niffler
Clothes
Exploding kittens
Earrings

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Asj0405 · 20/11/2020 23:09

Magazine subscription
Hair straighteners/curlers/waver
Or a voucher to get her hair done once hairdressers open back up, wrapped up with a nice shampoo and hair conditioning treatment
Something for her room - fluufy throw/chair/rug/wall art
Fitbit
Speakers or earphones
Bag/purse
Perfume
Shoes/boots
Scarf
Some weights/yoga mat if she's into fitness
Gel nail lamp
Chillys bottle

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ArthurChristmas2 · 20/11/2020 23:09

Ooo I will google silk pillow now. It’s a driving experience that’s sat in the drawer. Can’t sit in car with others at mo. Photography book is s good shout and I might start looking at some sort of course, we got her a good camera and she needs to understand how to use it!

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MaverickDanger · 20/11/2020 23:09

Waffle maker? Kitchenaid?

Nice bedroom things are always a good way to go, as well as cosy PJs and loungewear.

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ArthurChristmas2 · 20/11/2020 23:15

@PurpleFrames the embroidery T-shirt is genius, thank you. I should have said she’s very crafty and has fimo, makes clothes etc. @Thewinterofdiscontent silk pillow, fab thank you. Never come across one. She has curly hair to die for and she wakes up like Einstein! I might get some sleep scents as well as she struggles to sleep.
Bath bomb, face mask, couple of books in stocking.

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RomaineCalm · 20/11/2020 23:17

@PurpleFrames - which face masks do you recommend. Not for DD but I have another family member that would like them.

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gavisconismyfriend · 20/11/2020 23:19

How about a subscription to a monthly goody box? My teen loved the paper gang stationary one, but beauty ones or a baking one might go down well too.

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Safeguardingconcern · 20/11/2020 23:20

Have a similar dd of the same age. Place marking for ideas!

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WhatWouldYouDoWhatWouldJesusDo · 20/11/2020 23:26

My ds is similar, he's always been happy with his lot and doesn't ask for anything.

So far he has a coffee machine and a sack of beans 😬

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Mykittensmittens · 20/11/2020 23:27

If she already dabbles in fimo then look into polymer clay further - you can make fantastic beads, and there are lots of books on polymer bead making and it’s quite skilled. You can create fabulous things with it.

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TicTacTwo · 20/11/2020 23:28

Does she have a Spotify premium subscription?

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