We are massively struggling with presents for my dsd - she is 10 and her only real interest is fortnite although she does sometimes play Minecraft too and something like inky? She is adamant she only wants vbux Which is fortnite money but we have 3 other kids who will have lots to open. We don't have consoles here and try and limit her phone / ipad use to under 5 hrs a day which is a source of huge conflict so we don't really want her only presents to be game points, but we do want her to actually like her presents- pointless to buy her what we wish she would like instead of what she actually likes. She already has a fairly new phone, ipad and laptop from previous birthdays and Christmases. Weve bought her a bike and a scooter in the past and her mum sold them both saying she never used them. She does have a bike here which she has no interest in. She hates lego etc, doesnt read or do anything artistic, no real interest in clothes (we have got her a few bits of YouTube merch - a hoody and cap which she chose herself, and a fortnite onesie. I think any more clothes than that she will find disappointing). Weve bought her nice trainers before and her mum sold them. Any ideas? Were so stuck and I feel there will be tears and tantrums on Christmas day when she either hates all her presents or feels she has the least to open. Her mum is no help - last time we asked her she told us to buy her a phone, then she gave her her old one a few days earlier and guilted her into telling us she wanted to keep that one and didnt want the one we'd bought her. I know we should know our own child better than this but weve had a lot of issues with her refusing to visit in the last 2 years as we limit her screen time (she gets 5hrs plus tv, the other kids get 2hrs including tv) so the relationship isn't what we wish it was at the moment. DH is desperate for this Christmas to go well and not be another huge conflict. Any ideas from people who have game-loving kids would be massively helpful as we just don't have a clue!
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