Dd7 has asked for a kidicom max phone. DH is saying definitely no, I'm not keen either. We have a constant battle with trying to limit her screen time and just don't want to get her a phone even if it's just a kiddie one. Also I think 80 pound present is excessive for a seven year old. We're about to move to a big house with lots of land to go on adventures in and would prefer her to be out rather than staring at a phone. She says she is not interested in toys and only likes electronic things. Objectively I'd say yes she isn't massively into toys. She loves imaginary play with her friends or siblings but prefers to use random bits and bobs in their games (plastic phones, wands, bags, hats, pots and plates, notebooks etc). She is also mega active and loves her scooter and bike, dancing and music and anything outdoorsy or anything to do with her friends.
So far I've gotten her : baby Annabel, double buggy for her dolls (second hand), electronic secret diary, bedtime stories for rebel girls book,, beado JoJo bows and a unicorn onesie. She'll get maybe five presents on top of that of other people. We don't tend to do lots of stocking stuff.. maybe some chocolates and pyjamas but not much more. Her little brothers are getting presents that are going to make them scream with excitement. Nothing expensive but just the perfect presents for them.
I worry she isn't getting enough presents and especially that she isn't getting a present that's going to make her go WOW. Is this just silly and a recipe for a spoilt child? She has always been mega grateful for any presents and even for every single birthday card she gets. I was always disappointed at Christmas because we were poor. We are not poor but probably tend to get less expensive presents than people who've got less money as we don't want to bring up spoilt children. But I'd like to find the middle ground where they get presents they find really exciting without getting them super expensive stuff.
I thought about heelys but she's super clumsy and they are dangerous anyway. I thought about a massive rocking horse but won't manage to get one in time for Christmas. Just can't think of anything that'll be really exciting. Am I just worrying for no reason? She'll have an amazing life in the new house!
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StormyIsland · 16/12/2017 20:23
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