My family never did or do Christmas. But it's important to dh, so we have always done it with our dc. I've always gone along with it and entered into the spirit of it - the giving presents bit is fun, and feasting is nice, too. Dh and I do all the prepping, cooking, buying, wrapping, stocking-filling etc together.
FC filled the stockings, so only the dc hung them up. The year the dc all finally knew about FC, I secretly prepared a stocking for dh, too. I have done so every year since then, putting out a filled stocking for dh when he's not looking, rather than getting him to hang one up the night before. The first year he was surprised, but not since. He always seems pleased to find it. The dc have got used to him having one, and ask him what he got.
So now I'm the only one who doesn't have a stocking. This will be the fourth year.
AIBU to think that I shouldn't have to ask for one?
It's not that I need a stocking, its about being considered. Everyone now knows that the stockings are stuffed with gifts carefully chosen by Mum and Dad. Even the dc are starting to add their own gifts to each other's stockings. So why am I being left out?
WIBU to make myself a stocking? I don't want to come across PA. If I unpack it happily and with pleasure, and openly, I don't think it would be PA? And if dh takes the hint, well and good. And if he does not, then I can continue making myself a stocking of things I really want every year.
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WIBU to make myself a stocking?
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PurpleYam · 04/11/2017 09:25
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