Sorry this is going to be long as I don't want to drip feed, and I've name changed as could be outing...
So DH was estranged from his family for a few years until DC came along. We're now in touch and all very jolly. We live quite far so only see them every four months really.
Last year we went to them after Christmas for a few days and we found presents really stressful in terms of what to get (barely know them, DH rubbish at gifts, super broke as unpaid mat leave at that point).
We did gifts for his parents- photos and things but for his siblings (he has three (one DS (single), one step brother (with partner and her two DC), one step sister (with DH) we did tiny little hampers of home made fudge, biscuits, soap etc plus some relatively low cost gifts- mugs for his step sister and DH, a smelly set from Joules for his sister (regift) and can't remember what for his step brother but also got little token gifts/toys for the DSB's children (think £3-4 each).
We got lovely gifts from his parents and our DC got lots of lovely things from them too. But that was the extent of the present giving- none others for us or DC from any siblings. But now I have the quandary of what to do this year as we're going for actual Christmas and I think most of them will be there- definitely the sister (and new boyfriend), and step brother with his family. Last year the one sidedness of gifts wasn't awkward because there wasn't really a gift giving session as it were, but this year there will be I suppose if it's Christmas Day... so what do we do? We have a bit more money this year as I'm working but do we do couple gifts? And if so any bright ideas? I suppose I don't mind doing £25 per couple maybe- but have no idea what to buy... but wonders why bother if they end up not bothering with us again!
If you've made it this far- well done, and apologies for how long this is!
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Christmasjoyorsomething · 09/10/2017 22:42
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