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2 yeaf age gap fairness

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Beth2511 Mon 26-Dec-16 11:12:42

just before i keep an eye oit for bargains for 2017.. i will have a 3 year old and 1 year old qnd have been wondering for a while which keeps a happier hoisehold.. money being equal or equal number of presents regardless of money spent?

Veggiesupremeextracheese Mon 26-Dec-16 11:14:20

This year my 3 and 1 year old have basically shared everything! The 3 year old was more interested in the presents and the 1 year old in the paper, so I wouldn't worry!

AllTheBabies Mon 26-Dec-16 11:16:58

I'd say amount of presents. They have no concept of money. Not that the one year old will be sitting there counting the parcels either!

PancakesAndMapleSyrup Mon 26-Dec-16 11:17:46

Equal number of presents. As they get older they will just count them!

MoonDuke Mon 26-Dec-16 11:18:13

Number of presents. They have no concept of cost

Mol1628 Mon 26-Dec-16 11:19:05

At their ages I don't think they have much concept of money or announts of presents. I had a one year old and three year old last year and they just shared and enjoyed presents.

waitingforsomething Mon 26-Dec-16 11:20:15

My DC were just 4 and 18 months this Christmas - no idea of the concept of money although we tried to give them the same number of presents roughly. DC1 actually got a bike as an extra this year so technically not completely fair but DC2 was too young to care and loved all his stuff.

MTWTFSS Mon 26-Dec-16 20:46:32

Number of presents! Young children do not know the value of items.

DS1 (5.5 yo) - total £30
DS2 (4 yo) - total £88.50

Juanbablo Wed 28-Dec-16 07:41:49

Equal number of presents. My dcs have never counted them (eldest is 9) but I feel better if I know they have the same!

Scooby20 Wed 28-Dec-16 07:49:57

I think next year the one year old wouldn't notice unless there is a huge difference and the child is nearer 2. Even then I would surprised.

I have a larger age gap (7 years) so my oldest got a smaller pile but more expensive stuff. She is 12 so totally gets it as she picked most of her own stuff. We just go for money spent.

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