DS will be just turned 4 this Christmas and it will be the first year that he will have the conversational skills to describe what he got for Christmas (without me translating for him). And he's starting preschool, so will have lots of time with kids to discuss whatever takes their fancy. So how much will the compare their Christmas experience and presents? I remember talking about Christmas as a child and discussing what we got but even though we were fairly poor and my parents had a very tight budget, I never remember feeling bad about my gifts compared to wealthier friends.
DS may be on the opposite side of those discussions now. I don't actually spend a huge amount on gifts but I buy (practically) perfect toys secondhand throughout the year and put lots of nice bits away for him at Christmas. My parents and brothers do the similar and if they find something particularly good in a charity shop/car boot sale it gets put away for Christmas. So while nobody spends huge amounts, DS does get quite a few really great toys at Christmas. And I don't really want him to make other kids feel bad because they aren't going to know or care that we didn't spend a lot.
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SpringerS · 02/09/2016 10:41
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