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I'm "NC" with my aunt and uncle, because they keep falsely accusing me of things. We tried to move past things for my Nan's sake in 2012, because I had my first child and my Nan wanted everyone to get along for his sake. My aunt and uncle agreed, and promised to help me, but nothing materialised. We met up very occasionally. At Christmas and birthday, they gave large showy gifts. I felt uncomfortable receiving them, but I accepted my son's and donated my own.
I had my second child in February of this year, and they all promised to try harder to interact better, but they still haven't met him. We have arranged to meet on New Year's Eve, but I doubt that it will happen. Today, in the post, I received two £50 Smyths vouchers, one for each child. I feel uncomfortable accepting them. Both kids already have every toy they want bought for Christmas, as we have a small house. I don't know what to do! Do I donate the gift cards? Do I get my aunt and uncle something for Christmas? What does everybody think? Thank you.
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WeaselOfWimbledon · 17/12/2014 21:58
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