The Christmas Traditions Thread ;) (in July, oh yes, for real)(105 Posts)
Hello, all Christmas Lovers 'tis time to settle down and consider the Christmas Traditions. Then in December when everyone else is running about , tearing out hair and raging at Amazon/Post Office or supermarket of choice, we've got it sorted.
(Bit of background here) I was born in the late 1960s so Christmas in my day <<old gimmer emoticon>> was much more low key. Memories were a pillowcase of presents and buying tangerines from the market.
Then age 8+ my mum especially was very meh about Christmas, too much effort (though she didn;t actually do much) . Meals got made because we had a family friend who visited,and cooked , then I used to cook. Any decorations were done by us.
So when I had my own DC, I had a mental image of how I wanted Christmas to be. DH
takes the mick says I'm over-compensating for my youth. I like to do things to build up to the Day. Doesn't have to cost much.
And every year as the DC get older, things change. We add a new Tradition each year, some get abandoned.
The DC are involved more now but when they were little I wanted them to think it was all 'seamless'.
So.....coffee in hand, here we go.
I do a £2 jar from January. Try to save £4-6 a week, then we open it, put it in the bank and share the money out. (DH,DS,DD and me)
I save my Sainsbury Nectar points (and use the extra points vouchers) usually get £120+ in rewards for my Christmas food shop)
DS birthday is December so we don't do any decorations until 10-14 days before Christmas. Some of my decs are 23 years old, but every year we buy a couple of new ones.
We have a little advent calender (with decorations that are hung on a little tree) and room for a chocolate coin.So on Dec 1st it starts.
I do have an Elf on the Shelf that I made from a doll (A-Team - liam neeson one) before it was a Dr Who doll (Christopher Eccelstone- he was scary). I made clothes from felt . He hides round the house each night.
When DS was about 3-4 yo I made a little sleeping elf in a bed and we walked down the Playhouse with a candle in a jar to peep.
I put lines of candles in jars on the lawn to make a guide for the sleigh.
We did Reindeer Food (once) edible glitter, coloured sugar and porridge to scatter on the lawn. It sat like a lump of vomit for days hence only once.
We do a family day out to London. See the lights. Go to Hamleys. Count the Hamleys bags.
Winter Wonderland (though last year it was really busy)
DD and I go to see a ballet
DH,DD and DS go to the cinema to see a film while I do the food shop in peace.
DH and I have a child free shopping day at end November.
Then we take DC to Lakeside/Bluewater to do their shopping (with their share of the £2 jar)
On Christmas Eve, we used to feed ducks or reindeer, now they are older we go for a walk (park usually) and they come back to their Christmas Hampers in front of the fire.
Lunch is chips,salad,fish fingers for DS, veg grills for DH and I.
Trifle for us, ice-cream for DC.
We have crackers and poppers etc on the table.
We watch a Christmas Film.
Check out Santa Tracking (online)
DD does a tray for Father Christmas (which I eat)
We do a late night buffet- sandwiches and crisps things.
DS sleeps in DD room (grumble grumble) so we can hear them wake up and open their stockings. They can't go downstairs until the fibre optic little tree (on a timer) lights in the hall.
The lounge door is covered in wrapping paper that they burst through.
I do the same meal every year for Christmas Day (I don't like these new fangled 'different' meals).
Has to be dark and has to be finished in time for Dr Who.
I spend all day pottering about, cooking, setting the table, watching the soaps as I work.
Candles, all my nice crockery (I have a Christmas Cupboard ) , popper, crackers, lovely tablecover.
We don't eat Christmas Pud so I don't make one (or Christmas Cake but I like fruit cake and cheese)
The DC used to dress up(fancy dress) on Christmas Eve but they are too old now.
Christmas Eve Hamper (CEH) is in a nice festive box: new PJs, annual, jar of sweets, hot chocolate sachet,a Christmas mug, mini biscuits, bath bomb.
Christmas Morning Stocking:selection box, tiny Lindt reindeer or teddies. Underwear. Earrings for DD. Keyring for DS. Books (I Spy book or paperback)
All wrapped with extra sellotape to keep them busy
My DC are 11 and 13 now so every year it changes and in a couple of years my DS won't be out of bed until noon. The presents are getting smaller and more ££. (So that's why we need the stockings. Little 'filler' presents but useful and only a couple of £ each).
Come and add to the list (if you've managed to read this far)
And - Yes I KNOW it's July before anyone says it,
But this is THE CHRISTMAS THREAD.
70....we've never seen it before!! It's all packed up in his hamper ready to go for Christmas Eve though We always do Disney's Once Upon A Christmas too, quite a few times in the run up....but to be fair, that's more for me ;) I've never heard of Lost Christmas or Nativity (seen about 10 films ever lol) are either good for a 5yr old boy?
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Nativity is great and most kids love it as half the cast are their age! The songs are catchy too. I didnt like nightmare before Xmas...for me its not Christmassy enough and too dark for Christmas Eve but maybe that's because I have girls who are more into barbie Christmas
Arthur Christmas and home alone are great but you can't beat the grinch!
sugar "Lost Christmas" was on TV (so I don't think it has an age rating) but I don't think a 5yo would enjoy it or even sit through it.
There's a couple of scary/shock bits ( car accident and a little girl requiring rescue) .
Nativity OTOH is fabulous. You can't help but fall in love with Mr Poppy.
Nativity 2 will be out on DVD (though I'm not a fan of David Tennant).
And yes, the songs are annoyingly catchy
Sweet Baby Jesus. Has anyone read the Poncetastic Christmas thread? Scroll halfway up, look right, see about a dozen Christmas related threads in purple, it's about halfway down.
Literally just laughed so hard I could have had an incident. Not only is this me to a tee, but it's bloody hilarious. God bless her for writing this, sending to all my equally perfect Christmas obsessed friends!!!!
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Lack of punctuation (slaps wrists) makes that look like we are perfect people obsessed with Christmas. Ohhhhhhhh no no no no (Churchill voice.)
We are a happy, hapless, mainly drunk over the festive period, bunch of girls obsessed with the perfect Christmas
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Can you bump the Poncetastic Christmas Thread?
I would if I had anything greater than Neanderthal skills on a laptop... <<twiddles thumbs awkwardly>>
If you type "poncetastic tips" in the MN search box then her prior years pop up, the woman who starts it all is called FellatioNelson, and is utterly brilliant. It appears she always starts the annual thread on the last Saturday of September, and it goes from there...has rather a cult following it would seem...I'm in!!
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It has cheered me up rereading this. I will look at poncetastic later (although it is worlds apart from my half-arsed ways!).
One of my traditional must-watch things, since I got the box set last year, is the awesome original Vicar of Dibley xmas special!
Ours are -
Cloth advent calendar with pockets, some filled with sweets and some with cheap little toys
Tree night! Decorating to Christmas tunes, with some fizz and party food.
Santa at the beach with the real reindeers.
I wrap the presents when on my own one night with baileys or Tia Maria!
Panto every year.
Xmas eve - make the snack for Santa during the day, either cake or some kind of sweets. Sparkly reindeer food. Santa key. New pjs and a book. Hot choc before bed.
Santa sorts all the presents into piles per person. Santa doesn't wrap his, he lays them out on the sofa!! He also leaves a bit of his beard on the glass he drank from!
This year we are Family HQ as we have just moved into a new house which is big enough to host everyone comfortably. So our house will be full of people for most of the season (which is just how I like it). My uncle is coming to stay with my parents, he lives in Scotland and I haven't seen him in over 15 years. I am having annual leave and will be off from the 21st to the 2nd January. DH is a police officer and will be working over Christmas. My plans for the year are a mix of old traditions and some new for this year, DD will be nearly 4 and therefore first year she will really appreciate it. I ahve an ancient Advent Calendar that I used when I was little, DD has it now.
23rd December Having a drinks party with friends
Christmas Eve - we have a christingle craft group at church followed by service in the morning. I am making DD a peacock fancy dress outfit for her to wear. We will come home via the park and feed the ducks then come home for her Elf Box and bake some biscuits for the santa tray. I always make a Julbord for Christmas Eve with mulled wine. It will be open house. DD has a special Santa Tray with a robin on it, then she will go to bed
Christmas Day - DH's on earlies and is bringing his section round for breakfast as we live very close to the station, so I will be cooking full english for about 10 police officers !! Christmas Lunch happens around 2pm then we might play this chocolate roulette idea. We will be about 12-15 for lunch. My parents do a charity thing (we used to do this until we had DD) so they will come round after they have finished for a snack buffet. Queen's Speech is essential.
Boxing Day we go to the bandstand in the morning and watch the entertainment. My Dad always wears a flashing Christmas tie and my Mum wears antlers Then everyone will be round to ours for Boxing Day tea and trivial pursuit.
DS will be 15 months this Christmas, so although too young to understand, we are going to start traditions this year. These are what we would like to do
as stolen from other MNetters and what we already do....
We have slowly replaced my crappy IKEA tree decorations with sentimental ones over the years. Our tree has an array of weird and wonderful decorations from dh's grandmas hand knitted ones, to our amazing rubber duck decoration!
I've just told dh about wrapping paper over the living room door, and elf on a shelf, both of which we are using this year.
As well as having a chocolate advent calendar, we are also using an idea I saw on here last year for a book advent. We are going to buy ds 23 books, a mixture of new and charity shop bought ones. We are going to put them into a bag, and ds will do a lucky dip each night for his bedtime story. Christmas Eve will of course be Twas the night before Christmas!
Christmas Eve hamper will consist of new pj's, dressing gown, slippers, and a new sippy cup for him to have a hot chocolate before going to bed. Once he is in bed, we will have a fish and chip dinner.
Christmas day we will be round my parents, so ds will open father Christmas presents in the morning, then after lunch, we open family presents. This takes hours as we bring them out 1 at a time. This will include my df complaining about how long it takes.
The Christmas day buffet in the evening, and Dr who.
At the weekend, we will be at dh's parents to do it all over again.
I have found my true home <<contented sigh>>
I love Christmas. I genuinely get a warm fuzzy feeling in my tummy when I walk down a supermarket isle and see the shelves slowly being stocked up with Christmas chocolates and advent calendars.
Our family traditions are still evolving and many have been pinched from here over the last few years.
Xmas hamper, which is delivered 1st December by our Elf Cranberry. This year DH has suggested we get another Elf and do 2 boxes as DS, 7 and DD, 3 are not overly keen on sharing and DS already considers Cranberry to be his Elf as he has been coming for the last 3 years. The boxes will have new onesies, toothbrush, bubbly bath stuff, Christmas book, dvd, chocs and the advent calendar.
We do elf on the shelf all December which the DC's love.
I have just booked our panto for the Saturday before Xmas, the matinee show which will be followed by tea out somewhere.
We visit Santa on the farm at the local National Trust park.
Last year I took DS to pick presents for family followed by the cinema and lunch out. I'll do this again this year with DD too.
Christmas fair / carol service.
PNP - they love getting their vidoes from the big man.
This year we are planning on going out Xmas eve, not sure where yet but maybe bowling and tea out / run around the park depending on the weather and probably Christingle service.
Before bed we track Santa with Norad, do the milk / carrot / mince pies .
This year if the weather is okay I want to do the candles on the drive to light the runway and scatter the magic reindeer oats.
Christmas morning, the DCs bring their stockings in to our room and open them on our bed.
Another new one I want to do this year is the wrapping paper over the living room door for the DC's to burst through when we all come downstairs.
Also I am going to keep back a couple of presents either till after dinner or Boxing day depending on how late we get finished! Dinner is at home with DM and my gran and is always pretty traditional. We also don't bother with starters and very rarely manage dessert
Luffly thread <sighs contentedly>
SugarHut, thank you - have just ordered the Robert Sabuda book
We are slightly altering a tradition this year - instead of going to the cinema and lunch in the run up to Xmas, we will do it between Xmas and new year. Less hectic as no school stuff, and is a fun family event to look forward to after the big day too.
Also it's funny how the things that get remembered are not always what you'd expect. DD started talking about Xmas recently and the first thing she said was "Xmas is when we get pancakes for breakfast!" ... so I guess that's a tradition now.
They also really loved getting a new cuddly toy on Xmas eve and I think that will become a regular thing, they don't get them at other times (in fact most of the ones they have are actually mine )
fuzzpig if you want to do a "GoodLuck Charlie" tradition , you need to make Christmas Tree Shaped Pancakes.
(If you don't know what GoodLuck Charlie is -- think yourself very lucky )
I wouldn't say all these are traditions but this is how our Christmas will go this year:
1st weekend in December ( actually starting 29th nov) weekend away in Manchester to visit Christmas markets and Trafford centre etc.
2nd weekend; tree up on the Saturday followed by Sunday school nativity then visiting Santa at a local farm. You can stay for the whole day and were going with sil and nieces and nephew so will have lunch there and see the animals too.
3rd weekend: visit big garden centre with Christmas decorations up and ds wants to buy a snow globe from there.
Not sure about 4th weekend but we'll definitely visit dh's grandparents.
23rd: do big shop in Sainsburys that is always randomly quiet in our town and do some Christmas baking and tidy the house.
Christmas Eve: have nice breakfast ( pastries I think), go to church with dsis and nieces( although our vicar is leaving in Nov so not sure what will happen with Christmas services with no proper vicar ) then have lunch in pub next door. Let ds and nieces run off some steam in park next door to that then home where Santa will have left an early present for ds ( I'm not a fan of CEH but this year he needs 2 things early so we're going to tell him that Santa delivers an extra present to boys and girls who have been really good in their first term at school). Ds will then have a (very) early bath with lush glitter bath bomb, get into his onesie ( from his early present) and read Santa is Coming to X ( seems silly to give up him that on Christmas Day when he's already been...) and then we're going to a ' onesie party' at sil's. I'm actually more excited for Christmas Eve this year!
Christmas Day: ds will no doubt have his annual lie in while me and dh wake up early and stomp around increasingly noisily trying to wake him up! Then we go down stairs to see if he's been ds will open his presents then we get ready and go to sil's again for breakfast, where the pils will also be. We'll swap presents there and stay til about 12ish and hopefully visit dsis on the way home. Then we'll open presents from each other ( we're each helping ds to choose the other one this year) and I'll make lunch. It's just for the 3 of us so no massive preparations but it'll be nice and there will be all the trimmings with christmas pudding for dessert. In the evening we'll have chocolates, wine/ lemonade for ds and tv.
Then on Boxing Day we always go up to the lakes for a walk and have lunch in a cafe.
Fuzpig - a friend of mine has a fizz and filmfest on as eve. It's an open house and all friends/family pop in during the day for half and hour at any point. The only rules are that Xmas films will be playing non stop and fizz will be drunk. I'm really looking forward to going this year.
Loving these so marking M y spot so I can copy!
Olibean I stomped about last year trying to wake the boys up. They get up at 6 the other 364 days of the year.
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