I don't want to receive any gifts this year. For a start, I'm one of those weird people who doesn't really like presents, and who especially doesn't like ceremonial gift giving/opening in front of 50 relatives. Also, I'm a bit fed up of the whole consumer side of it and would rather give money to charity or something.
My auntie said last year no presents for her please, and that she wouldn't be giving any either as it was all getting a bit much. Since she's nearly 90 everyone understands.
I just don't want any attention on me and feel very self conscious and anxious about it. In fact, I'd say it makes me dread family get togethers over Christmas. In fact, it has become embarrassing because people think I don't like their gifts because of the way I react, but it is just that I am self conscious and anxious.
Is there a polite and non fuss making way that I can get out of it?
And yes, I do partly think I should just get over it, I have tried, believe me.
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Is it possible to bow out of receiving family Christmas gifts gracefully?
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wildstrawberryplace · 06/11/2012 11:33
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