Need the wisdom of you lovely festive MNers please!
Xmas has always been a bit of a struggle for us. DH had a horrific childhood and obviously has no good memories of it. My own family is dysfunctional and toxic and my parents didn't like Xmas so didn't see why their only child should .
We have an agreement that Xmas day itself is just for us (me, DH, DD 5, DS 3) - my family believes it is just because we want to enjoy the day ourselves but basically it is because the alternative of having them here is miserable, boring and stressful.
But even on our own, Xmas has never been that great. It feels like Sunday with presents and more food. We are good at the present part but it seems like that is the focus of the day which is not what I want.
Hopefully DH will be in good health by then, as he has just had an operation on his spine having been injured for 2 years (he couldn't even sit at the table!) but I am unlikely to be much better as I have developed a chronic illness - it is unpredictable and I don't even know if I'll be able to work by then.
I am not going to put loads of pressure on myself to make it 'perfect' because I know that's a bad idea. So I'm just looking for a few easy ways to make it more fun and different :)
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How to make our tiny family Christmas magical when 1. We are both ill and 2. Our own Christmases were crap?
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fuzzpig · 02/11/2012 10:17
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