My sister is 9 and she is coming to stay with us at christmas. She still think that father christmas is real, I'm sure this must be the last year that she believes but I have said this for the last 2 years so maybe kids just find out later these days(?)
The problem is that I live in Sweden, she is aware of the Swedish tradition, here "jul tomten" (father christmas) comes to the childrens house on the evening the 24th and delivers all the pressies. Jul tomten is usually an uncle or family friend dressed up as father christmas in a not very good fake beard. my d-sis will in no way believe he is real with a fake beard.
We have explained that father christmas comes early in Sweden because he lives so close (lapland) and by the time he has seen all the kids in Sweden the kids in the UK are asleep so they have to leave the stockings out. She is happy with this explanation.
She is happy and knows that the guys dressed up as father christmas in shopping centers are not the real father christmas, we have been to lapland and met the "real" father christmas, should we tell her that the jul tomten who will visit on the 24th is not real just some fun dressing up but the real father christmas will come on the night of the 24th and leave stuff in her stocking? Also my baby will be around 2 weeks old, we didn't really intend to do a stocking for him but should d-sis is very excited and is going to inform father christmas in her letter about the new baby so she fully expects us to put a stocking out for the baby, do you think a sock and some dummies/hat/rattle will do?
Any ideas, this father christmas lie is getting so confusing!
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How to keep the father christmas magic alive for a 9 year old when she is in a country with a compleatly different father christmas culture?
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honeytea · 30/09/2012 21:39
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