I know I am bah humbug but I get this way every year! Especially this one where I feel a bit under pressure because 2 bouts of snow (southern Hampshire) have scuppered my shopping plans and this year, just about everything I do to get to feel a bit more in the mood has been kyboshed by either the weather or illness. Everything! 2 carol services, my work Xmas do, a trip with friends to Derbyshire, an evening drinks do I was hosting.
Now the DSs, 9 and 11, are constantly sniping at each other and I have a week of not really being able to do much with them. DS1 hasn't made much effort towards getting local friends sorted so no reciprocal play dates, neither would skate (an expensive mistake I fear!), town will be horribly crowded, and we failed to be successful in getting tickets for the panto by the skin of our teeth. Can't wrap any presents cos the ones that had to go i sorted and posted a couple of weeks ago, and there are a lot of vouchers flying amongst my family this year.
We will go to the kids Xmas tree service on Xmas Eve, near my mother's BUT mother's retort when I suggested that she might like to make the Xmas Eve meal we'll then have at hers a bit festive was 'Why bother? We'll have enough rich food to eat on Xmas Day, I'll do sausage and mash'. Thanks, mum. Oh, and that'll be Xmas Day at my place where I'll be doing all the catering, wouldn't it? THEN she has the temerity to sigh 'Oh, I'll be glad when all the fuss of Xmas is over' when she hasn't done a bloody THING! I even bought all the presents from her (and my brother) to my sons! Hasn't lifted a finger.
I have rescheduled my drinks thing but can I get anyone to commit? Everyone does that New Years Eve thing, sort of committing but not completely in case something better comes along! They were all well up for it last week, but THIS magic pre-Xmas week seems to be an issue.
Or maybe they don't like me?!
OK, I'll shut up now but I do feel that if I didn't bother, Dec 25th would be like Nov 25th or January 25th, ie same as any other day.
Bah, humbug etc!
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Anyone else hate this final pre-Xmas week? Humbug alert!
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ampere · 19/12/2010 16:40
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