What I would love more than anything else is a night in a hotel with room service, a large bottle of wine and the TV remote all to myself. If it had a sauna where I could wind down earlier as well, I would almost weep with joy.
I love my family, but after Bfing for a long time and being tied to the house every night, I dream of a night alone without the demands of the children...and DHs snoring .
definitely ask for it and be really clear that it's what you really want. when we go away to see family every year I really enjoy climbing into hotel bed (dd asleep and they eat really early there) and watching tv till I fall asleep. lying right in the middle of the bed . DD is asleep in the room but it's as good as being alone. Very relaxing.